If she found out after marriage about his orientation...why on earth did she even stick it out with him for a year. You mentioned how strict they were, and how she visits every few months...why didn't she just leave him then & there. There has to be more to the story...
yea .........that true this is one part of story..............
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aww...so sorry to hear this. But what EcoShan said, I agree with that. ALot of times the 'mashreekiyath' in a hard blooded desi woman, regardless of her being born/bred here in West, gets the best of us.
If she's a friend and u know her...help her by ur words and ask her to seek legal guidance. She can get her fair share, not all is lost inshaAllah. Though alot think there's no justice left in this world...but trust me if u think so, yes there won't be any, but if one has faith in Allah that not only will He the subhan wata ala give His fair share to His slaves here on this planet but in the next life as well. Tell her if she thinks its worth and and if she can't go on with completely 'forgiving' than she should use the 'worldly legal channels' to get her share of justice.
Okay, correct me if Im wrong but it seems like you're pointing a finger at the girl for him being homosexual??? How is that her fault? You've got to be kidding me.
yup correct yourself that i am not pointing fingers at girl. Obviously she is a victim of fruad. These (her inlaws ) should be brought to justice if they knowingly tried to ruin her life.
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Another thing, she was never told he was homosexual. She wouldnt marry him if he was, right? She lived with him for quite some time, experienced his distant behavior and was extremely disturbed by it. He kept it a secret from her for over 6 months before she started to suspect something was going on. Again, when you get married, the LAST thing you expect is for your spouse to be GAY.
The reason she was going back is because she was still trying to figure out what to do when she found out. She wanted to confront him and have it out but before she could, he pulled the plug on her. He knew he was caught and the only way out without publicly humiliating himself was to take the first step, divorce her and lay the blame on her shoulders.
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I guess you are filling the gaps in story by yourself. Anyways ... Allah will do justice with them
Poison him, hang him...shoot him..then set him on fire! Grrr
thats y i said insha Allah. btw khushkhabri angraizi kab se bolni shuru ki?
Bas kabhi kabhi ghalti sy nikal jati hy mu sy:D
Bas kabhi kabhi ghalti sy nikal jati hy mu sy:D
is saDgii pe Kon na maR ja'ay Ay KhuDaa :@:
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Code_Red
I dont want to argue with you. This was a story that happened in family friends so I shared it. If you think Im making it up, great.
I simply dont care enough.
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Gina so mean.
When I said kill him, I meant kill him softly. Since he is gay he might get hurt. Emotionally !
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thats a fraud not only in the eyes of the law but also on the name of ALLAH SWT.
it is better if she takes a divorce rather than seeing and living with that gay. YUCK!
ps. May ALLAH SWT give patience to girl and her family in this critical phase of their lives.
Jimmy K, these people deserve NO sympathy for spoiling a girls life and lying! His mother deserves the same for luring the girl into marrying her g a y son! I'm sure the parents knew well before! So, poison him and then shoot him then hang him and then set him on fire and dig a huge grave and add his parents in there too!
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I just feel horrible for her...I mean what mistake did she make in all of this? The rishta was pakka for at least 5 months before the wedding and the MIL and FIL insisted on not waiting any longer.
So, poison him and then shoot him then hang him and then set him on fire and dig a huge grave and add his parents in there too!
I am glad you are not a Judge.
j/k
^ One day... I will be and this will be my verdict for ALL such men!
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hmmm
^ One day... I will be and this will be my verdict for ALL such men!
Ok that's insane. Rather than educating parents that their gay sons dont' need to be cures by some poor unsuspecting girl, you are going on the wrong track. There shoudl be financial recompense for this girl but this is like stupid Taliban style behavior that is ruining pakistan and the west. Its quite infantile.
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^ She is being sarcastic, I think.
Grrr shoponline..as IF i'm about to board a plane to find that guy! Pakistani people don't respond to "education" there are so many similar cases with and without education! U're going to be labelled as "pagal" if u try to interfere in their matters and for saying u shud let u're son be single..first of all they dont even accept that their son can be gay so let alone everything else!
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Gina Talibah ?? hmmmm
Hmmmm
May be Taliban's women fashion division.
^ Yes i'm Taliban's first female model, I model in abaya's and naqaab's!
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zaraa tasweer dekhau tu baat banay