How do you control a man?

[sheyn]

Re: How do you control a man?

@Nisha25

CM is fast with catching those comments that need rethinking isn’t he, i’ve noticed that too. :hinna:

now what was it that you wrote before

**
I would tell you except I’m afraid He would have field day with it **

[Satrangi]

Re: How do you control a man?

@diwana

Newlywed Ki Nannhi Nannhi Khwahishen and bad husband.

He deserves nothing good. Next time, tell him you have a headache.

I did that last night and he just stared at me for a few minutes, turned around and went to sleep. Not the reaction I was hoping for!

@Nisha25

he needs to wake up. he has no sexual or emotional needs as a man? he married you so he was obviously attracted to your beauty and personality. if not on the weekdays when you might both be tired, what about the weekends, you two would be fully rested so isn’t he up for a romantic night together or anything fun?

i’m sure you must have bought lingerie or paid a visit to victoria secret. wear one of those for him on the weekend and see what happens…

you say stuff and it’s like it goes in one ear and out the other with him…that’s what it seems like. hope he’ll wake up to how beautiful his wife is and that he shouldn’t take you for granted and that he’s really lucky to have you

how do we do the wake up call? any ideas from the men of the forum?

Im so shy…Im so scared he will laugh at me or something.

@neha

Satrangi how much in the age difference between u two?

4 years

@CM

Sure you do. You just don’t know it yet. Don’t worry you shall learn. In the meantime…ASL?

OMG…that is SO 90’s! How old are you???

[Nisha25]

Re: How do you control a man?

am i the only one that doesn’t know what ASL is?

anyways, hopefully all the happily married folks come along and give their input

[Sehrysh]

Re: How do you control a man?

^ AGE/SEX/LOCATION

[Nisha25]

Re: How do you control a man?

@Sehrysh

^ AGE/SEX/LOCATION

thanku
ok it's chat lingo, never done chat and will never do it :D

[D_rkNgt]

Re: How do you control a man?

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am i the only one that doesn't know what ASL is?
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many wont knw ... :D

[Mirch]

Re: How do you control a man?

Is there something I can put in his food that will make him more obedient? Like a baba jee ka powder or something like that?

Yes it is called geedar singhi. You do not mix it in food or chai , you sungha-o it to him. He will be as obedient as a dolphin to you.

There has to be something like that...dont all women put stuff in their husband's food?

Refer to the above reply I posted.

Yes, I am newly married.

He is nice but acts like a buddha...doesnt want to go out or do much. Doesnt make me feel pretty or is romantic.

I am not 45 years old and this is not the end of my life.

He doesnt even compliment my dresses.

This is what happens when parents wed off a young girl to a well set , matured (in other world a geezer ) guy.

[CM]

Re: How do you control a man?

Me? Physical 28....mentally 2.

[Nisha25]

Re: How do you control a man?

@CM

Me? Physical 28…mentally 2.

@CM

You obviously married a gay man. Duh! I suggest you take out some whips and chains, wear some latex and put a leash around your man. That is how you control him.

@Nisha25

add in the jimmy choo heels and I personally think she has a winner comment from you

Satrangi, take this comment lightly. i mean if you’re up for it try it but definitely not a serious suggestion if you feel uncomfortable or if you feel your husband wouldn’t be into that sort of stuff

[Reha]

Re: How do you control a man?

How about some marriage counseling?

[hareem01]

Re: How do you control a man?

no idea mate.

[TLK]

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@CM

Me? Physical 28....mentally 2.

so you can drive the car but wet the bed also?

[Reha]

Re: How do you control a man?

^ He never claimed to be potty trained.

[queen_24]

Re: How do you control a man?

The one who try to "CONTROL" is the one who remains scared for the rest of the life, Let him come to you, with all his wish and will, you will no more need to control him and will be satisfy all for your life! for who loves you, and wants to be with you, won't leave you!

I heard once "marry someone who loves you, not someone whom YOU love" :) best of luck!!

[Satrangi]

Re: How do you control a man?

Im not scared of losing him...just frustrated. If he wants to leave me, fine.

But if he chooses to stay...then he needs to at least make an effort to make me happy.

My two cents.

[lahori99]

Re: How do you control a man?

@Satrangi

Im not scared of losing him...just frustrated. If he wants to leave me, fine.

But if he chooses to stay...then he needs to at least make an effort to make me happy.

My two cents.

in order to make you happy, he has to become your b****?

[Satrangi]

Re: How do you control a man?

Making me happy makes him a b****?

So, whats the opposite of a b*? Is it an a***? Hows that workin out for ya?

You're single arent you buddy?

[aaliyahkhan1]

Re: How do you control a man?

Why do you want to control a man...I feel..that when you try to control him..that is when you drive him away!!! A man is not a man if you can control him IMO...

Me..I like to be controlled (but no too much) :p

[lahori99]

Re: How do you control a man?

@Satrangi

Making me happy makes him a b****?

So, whats the opposite of a b*? Is it an a***? Hows that workin out for ya?

You're single arent you buddy?

why can't you be happy without controlling him?

[Satrangi]

Re: How do you control a man?

Because I want more than just a few bills paid out of a marriage.