Re: Hope for single ladies
There’s a LOT less chance of her education being disrupted before marriage.. After marriage she may have to move in with inlaws, be expected to do more housework, not be “anti-social”, not wait long to have kids etc. etc.
Even if the guy is ok with her completing her education or working before marriage it’s not that unlikely that he’ll change his mind.. or if he’s ok with it there’s a good chance the elders won’t be..
It is possible but anyone who says it’s just as easy doing it after marriage as before is not being realistic..