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but there are untrustworthy people all over the world. I suppose it seems to be more common among paki's (from back home). what a shame.
did ur sisters marry paki's from uk? or non-paki?
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Yes, they got married to paki's who were born and raised here in the UK, infact for my younger sister my parents were thinking of marrying her from back home, but i intervened and found her a good rishta here and mashallah they're both very happy with 2 beautiful children.
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I would never endorse a girl marrying a guy from backhome.. fine if it’s her choice, if the parents aren’t pressuring her into it, whatever.. but I would never do that for myself 
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nice brother. :)
i think when u are born and raised in the west it's quite difficult to marry someone from back home. The way you view life is just so different.
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thas called discrimination Sara...shame on you!
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no it's called her personal opinion.
anyway of course there are some exceptions.
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Why is that discrimination? After all, it’s “personal opinion” when guys will blast girls on here for being too westernized/ABCDs; don’t be a hypocrite Afridi
I know how Pakistanis from there can be and I’d just rather not marry them. I don’t htink guys there are more shareef or purer or better than guys here, theres just as many “jerks” there as there are here (and just as many sweet guys here as everyone says there are there).
And anyway judging by the guys I’ve known [there] I dont wanna marry some loser who’s gonan start 
out of sadness coz i had a baby girl 
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Tell me about it, that’s what i’m trying to get across…eck only a few months ago some nobody in some corner of Lahore said yes to marrying me and she even sent me her pic, eck i don’t even know anyone from Lahore so i’m like alarm bells ringing, i said thankyou, but no thankyou… 
So the moral of my story is a picture speaks a thousand words, but memories are forever. :hinna:
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and thas called generalizing, nobody in my family has ever been disappointed or saddened by a baby girl being born, neither would I.
Anyways, Men in general want boys, Women in general want girls.
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lol@ thank you but no thank you. she probably just wanted to live in the UK. so she didnt even know who u were or what u looked like? so odd!
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Ok fine
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not always. i knew a man that cried because he wanted his 3rd child to be a girl but he ended up with another boy (he was white american)
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wow we have totally derailed this thread. i think someone needs to start new threads. :)
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Yah, n come on you know I am right, just because ur family or the people you know, or things you hear from them r screwed up doesnt mean everyone is like that. Heck the women in my whole extended family run the show, they outnumber us like 2-1.
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Well she had seen my pic because my eldest sister sent one to her , it all really came about because my sister was talking to a friend here, who knew a friend, who knew a friend…you get the picture.
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yes it is still generalizing. your examples are just a small group of people.
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oh yea…i know that all too well. didnt ur sister know better than to try and hook u up with a girl from pak? (assuming ur not interested in a girl from pak)
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Well those 3 words i forgot to mention to her. :D
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apparently haha.
well perhaps better luck next time...Inshallah
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what happened to ajnabilarki...does anyone know?