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well 8 years is not a huge difference... it depends how you get along with him and whether you guys have that charm in the relation... 8 years is not a generation gap but saying that its a strange world out there so cant generalize it...
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well 8 years is not a huge difference... it depends how you get along with him and whether you guys have that charm in the relation... 8 years is not a generation gap but saying that its a strange world out there so cant generalize it...
Its not the fact that it is 8 years but more the fact that it started when she was only 14.
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Its not the fact that it is eight years but more the fact that it started when she was only 14.
Agree. A 14-year-old girl would be in around 8th or 9th grade. If he was 22 at the time...that's around when you finish college. I teach.....and I see girls that age in my school each day....and I've taught that age group as well....and while a few of them may be a bit more mature....many of them are silly and naive and very impressionable.
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Its not the fact that it is 8 years but more the fact that it started when she was only 14.
well yeah but i guess they are way over that time... and now the question is about the future... so whats been cant be undone... so better focus on not making any silly mistakes i guess
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Agree. A 14-year-old girl would be in around 8th or 9th grade. If he was 22 at the time...that's around when you finish college.
Yes. I'm waiting for the OP to go through my post. It should be pretty obvious but I hope she goes through it.
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well yeah but i guess they are way over that time... and now the question is about the future... so whats been cant be undone... so better focus on not making any silly mistakes i guess
Silly mistake would be going through with it.
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Silly mistake would be going through with it.
that would depend on the whole fact and what actually she wana do...
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well 8 years is not a huge difference... it depends how you get along with him and whether you guys have that charm in the relation... 8 years is not a generation gap but saying that its a strange world out there so cant generalize it...
The age difference alone is not the issue, its the fact that he latched on to her when she was just a child--and yes 14 is still a child, too young to be in a relationship/marriage!
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The age difference alone is not the issue, its the fact that he latched on to her when she was just a child--and yes 14 is still a child, too young to be in a relationship/marriage!
i know that... but what im saying is you cant judge the intentions of that guy just on the basis of that... plus as i said whats done is done... she should rethink and set her priorities coz she is still young and have a wonderful life ahead... so dont feel stuck and make a rational decision and make a final one more importantly... coz changing mind after sometime is actually more dangerous
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^ No one is making a decision JUST on the age difference, everyone is basing their opinion on the information teh thread starter has provided to us. Frankly almost all of those issues are non-issues but the fact that he's telling her he doesnt want her to work and that she should give up studying medicine, those are really really major issues. The fact that he was 22 and she was 14 when they started dating IS A BIG DEAL.
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^ No one is making a decision JUST on the age difference, everyone is basing their opinion on the information teh thread starter has provided to us. Frankly almost all of those issues are non-issues but the fact that he's telling her he doesnt want her to work and that she should give up studying medicine, those are really really major issues. The fact that he was 22 and she was 14 when they started dating IS A BIG DEAL.
well anything can be an issue if you wana make one... nothing is a big if you wana work out... yeah him controlling her and pushing her is a big issue thats why she need to set her priorities...
you kinda jumping to extreme straight away
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uh there's no extreme. almost every single person here has said that the guy is up to no good. I don't think any 20 something guy who goes after a young teenage girl has such great and pure intentions.
If you know your relationship isn't meant to be or isn't right, then why feel so scared and sick and break it off so many times? that's your instinct telling you to let things go but being in a relationship becomes a habit than something u want to be in.
This childhood sweetheart/pehla pyaar stuff is utter BS and too many ppl are ruining their lives over it...good for htem then.
To the thread starter--are your parents/families aware of this relationship?
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uh there's no extreme. almost every single person here has said that the guy is no good, and even if he is a really decent guy, theyu're not right for each other.
If you know your relationship isn't meant to be or isn't right, then why feel so scared and sick and break it off so many times? that's your instinct telling you to let things go but being in a relationship becomes a habit than something u want to be in.
This childhood sweetheart/pehla pyaar stuff is utter BS and too many ppl are ruining their lives over it...good for htem then.
are you always that grump???
i didn't say the guy was good or wrong... dont wana be judgemental and she has to decide for herself and stick to it thats what i meant.
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Wow. 
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why the thread is continuing so long??
she and him are totally different…marriage won’t work… stop it already…
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What the Nom man said.
Also Pedophile. Someone lock his ass up.
Also you guys know you are getting trolled right? This is the second or third time I have read a similar story on GS. The story is almost identical. I know I have a horrible memory and people can attest to that, however I very rarely use the word pedophile on GS and this is definitely the second or third time i am using it.
So OP good troll but just not good enough.
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Wow a better troll than I imagined. The troll got another Troll to be serious. Well done indeed.
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hahaha!
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if a 22 years old guy dates a 14 years old girl than he is a pedophile and if he lived in Denmark he would proberly be in jail now.
Hereforu124 how can u say whats done is done?[ Just because its done, doesnt make it right now. the fact is he did something WRONG when he was 22 and if I was princess sister or mom I would make sure that he got his punishment even if its 5 years later and they both are of age. Will u also say whats done is done if some pedophile made a 10 years old love him and would u tell the same girl when she was at age that whats done is done and she should go a head with it?
The Fact is SHE WAS 14 and HE WAS 22 no matter what its legally and moral wrong and this relationship should end and the parents should get involved how can people discuss their problems when the relationship is based on something wrong???
Princess didnt knew better she grew up thinking what she was doing was right that 22 years old guys was an adult for God sake! What would u guys have done if its was ur daughter??? Ofcourse she stills thinks she is inlove with him she doesnt know better she proberly got a kind of stockholm syndrome. This girls should run from as far as she can](“http://www.paklinks.com/gs/members/hereforu124.html”)
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U r saying that you are a new member, but your messed up situation (if real) will pull u to ranks of top messed up girls of GS pretty soon...