**Ok, it’s a really really stupid thing but this girl is really annoying and if she still tries to bother me with a totally stupid thing, I’m gonna slap her =S
Here’s the situation :
So, since september I sat with a classfellow on a bench and after the Xmas vacancies, this silly girl sat on “my bench” and I told her to go and sit on her bench and she did her FULL HUNGAMA(it’s mine and blabla)… I was really angry and I took her books and placed them on another bench and sat on my bench. And today I sat normally on my bench and she did a big DRAMA but I was quiet. But if she does the same hungama on this STUPID bench thing then I’m gonna take her books, throw them in the bin and slap her =S or I don’t knw.
I don’t want to have a bad reputation in front of teachers coz normally i’m a quiet student =S
i remember having these issues some 20 years ago. :\
the way we sorted it out in our days was with currency - marbles, stamps, coins. dialog is key. keep the doors of diplomacy open. maybe her ammi packed some real tasty lunch.
But I'm serious. And it's not @ work but I'm still in college
Actually I'd give her the bench but when she insulted my mom and started giving me some really baaaaad galiyan, I thought I'm not gonna let her sit here.
Oh God! Forget her. Let her chat sh*t, as you said You dont wanna look bad infront of your teachers. Its a bench for God sakes. Let her sit on it. Ignore her, and you sit on 'her' bench.
Oh God! Forget her. Let her chat sh*t, as you said You dont wanna look bad infront of your teachers. Its a bench for God sakes. Let her sit on it. Ignore her, and you sit on 'her' bench.
Seriously..
Its not about bench, its about people bullying you. Today bench, tomorrow her boyfriend (ok that was a joke :D) .. but honestly, you let someone walk over you and they will walk over you.
Sidra, the other person you shared the bench with, ask that person to let this bully know that she is not welcome on this bench.
if that is the case, dont do anything that makes u look like an idiot, however occasionally and indirectly do things that might upset her and frustrate her without her knowing it was u !!
Sidra, I really try to never make light of the issues that are important to younger folk, esp since my boys are so young. But really...think about it....its a place to sit and nothing more. If this is your biggest problem then you are really and sincerely blessed. Not that Im making light of the situation...there could be more to it. But try to think about how much this thing will matter two or three years from now. Write off that gal as a b-word and move on, focus your energies on better things.
MO3, as much as it is not of an issue for us grownups, for kids and young people, this could be a disaster to their confidence and self esteem. This is where Sidra is going to learn to stand up for her rights. I would suggest her not to let go.
Its not about bench, its about people bullying you. Today bench, tomorrow her boyfriend (ok that was a joke :D) .. but honestly, you let someone walk over you and they will walk over you.
Sidra, the other person you shared the bench with, ask that person to let this bully know that she is not welcome on this bench.
Sidra, the other person you shared the bench with, ask that person to let this bully know that she is not welcome on this bench.
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She's doing the same.
Lekin uss kuri ko kiya zaroorat hai mujeh iss tarha tang karne ki? aur wooh bhi itni stupid baat ke liye?
goshhhhh ok mjhe koi prob nahi thi, use bench dene wali thi ke usne galiyaan dena shuru ki. To ab main usse kyun doon? Respect ka bhi koi dayra hota hai. Agar lena tha to araam se kehti aur main de deti. That's Y.
I know it sounds TOTALLY STUUUUUUUPID :::::::(((((((**
Its not about bench, its about people bullying you. Today bench, tomorrow her boyfriend (ok that was a joke :D) .. but honestly, you let someone walk over you and they will walk over you.
Sidra, the other person you shared the bench with, ask that person to let this bully know that she is not welcome on this bench.
sorry in what world is that classed as 'bullying' ?? Do you know what bullying is? Its a bench. The girl sat there. Im sorry but what did YOU say to her to make her say sumthing about ur mum?
Again this is not bullying, Because you are clearly standing up for ur self.
Are you frm america/canada? I dunno why but it seems a big deal for you lot, (well what i saw on mean girls it does) :D
