heart or mind?

[Tpervaiz]

@Mezhgan

I don’t think you should make him the priority in your life at this point. There really is no urgency to make a decision now. Nothing is really clear or stable at this point. As you’ve only been speaking on facebook with nothing finalised yet, you could continue speaking to him every now and then but concentrate on your studies and daily life.

I think you stated in another post that you’re in your first year of uni. You should also take into account that we mature and develop quite a bit during the uni years. You may view things quite differently than you do now 2 to 3 years from now. Honestly, the first year of uni is practically an extension of high school in terms of mentality as people still tend to have that idealistic, happy-go-lucky high school mentality. It isn’t until the last couple of years that reality rather begins to set in and we see things more clearly.

Hmm but see what if i tell him wait wait and i m conentrating on my studies only so this is not an issue anymore.I don’t talk to him so much now..but what if he keeps on waiting and at the end everything goes wrong and he blame me ? Of keeping him waiting for too long. I sometimes feel i need to move on because it is not gonna work in future..At the same time i want to give him a chance to meet me n mom dad ..m depressed about it..i m getting rude each day..i have no friends and i don’t talk to many people now..what if my family reject him and then it hurt me and him more?