Sometimes i get into the situation where i have to make a decision and whenever i make a decision i wanna change it later..i was always weak in This aspect of my life.I always get confused about it..when i listen to my heart it makes me think contrary to what my mind says..my mind says: BE PRACTICAL AND MOVE ON.. But my heart says: DON’t LET HIM GO!how to make a final decision and to be firm on it? Listen to heart or mind?
Neither. Focus on what the gonads think.
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Honey, you are only 18 years old. This facebook fantasy of yours with a guy in India was not a real relationship. It was an infatuation. Snap out of it.
Pehlay barray hojao mera bacha, phir itna emo banna’an.
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Thank u aunty or uncle ..BARAY LOG 
i know m young but i have a heart too and i m not like other girls of my age as well u only know m 18 is k ilawa kuch nhi 
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Yea, okay then.
What? Uncle?
You know youre an oldie when you get called an uncle
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I think she meant me…baji…apa…aunty chor kay seeda uncle ka teer maara isnay 
Oooh I get it now haha
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Jo b samj le aunty ya uncle ye title us k liye :)) lol..Well! I respect you both so Sorry bhai ya behan jo b hain..
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If you’re struggling so much (and it sounds as tho you are from your posts) to stop all contact with him why not just cut it down to the bare minimum?
You could speak to him now and then but at the same time get on with your life so he’s not your sole focus.. As time goes on things will become clearer and you can make a decision later on in regards to what you want to do but concentrate on your studies and your day-to-day life for now.. I don’t think you’re ready to go cold turkey..
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Tpervez, I don’t see how this thread is any different from your previous?
By the way, do you know Nadz?
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Yeah i barely talk to him..Actually i told him to move on many times but he doesn’t want to..he want me give hima chance to proove my mum dad that he is good for me..WELL!! I just study these days..i think v less about it now..
Because each day the same thing bothers me
No i don’t know her ..
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Then read the same thread again because I doubt you’ll get any different advice.
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Oh goodness 
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I don’t think you should make him the priority in your life at this point. There really is no urgency to make a decision now. Nothing is really clear or stable at this point. As you’ve only been speaking on facebook with nothing finalised yet, you could continue speaking to him every now and then but concentrate on your studies and daily life.
I think you stated in another post that you’re in your first year of uni. You should also take into account that we mature and develop quite a bit during the uni years. You may view things quite differently than you do now 2 to 3 years from now. Honestly, the first year of uni is practically an extension of high school in terms of mentality as people still tend to have that idealistic, happy-go-lucky high school mentality. It isn’t until the last couple of years that reality rather begins to set in and we see things more clearly.
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unfortunately, every 18 years old girl says the same thing
The way people laugh at me it makes me feel bad instead of giving me a good suggestion(the purpose of posting here) they are telling me u are young..i know m young 
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^T, loads of people have given you good advice and it can be summed up as follows: Concentrate on your studies and day to day life for now. Keep speaking to the gentleman if you like, but do not make him a priority or obsess over the situation.