Re: He doesn't talk to me
Don't call him that is exactly what he wants he has made you believe that you are in the wrong when he does eventually answer it will be you asking for forgiveness not him which is out of order. Being so far away from you, you need him and he is not answering your calls shows how much he cares he knows you are hurting and still he is not answering.
Let him call you let him ask you for forgiveness
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everyone is spot on here.....you need to establish yourself with this guy.
Sorry, but he sounds like a loser. Dump him. So many women end up living lives of misery because they keep hoping that a rotten apple will turn sweet and shiny. It won't happen, so don't make excuses for him---if he wants to play the field, let him do it behind a dumber girl's back.
Most women would be so much better off if they learned to be a little less tolerant.
So much better of what?
I think she means you can get a wayyyy better guy who will treat you much BETTER.. :) And, I agree with her.
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Here is my conclusion from all your threads, you're not stong enough to stand up to him and make him change his mind, or get him to straighten out. So just get out of this relationship, if you have such a problem with him!
And you're being a bigger idiot, by staying with him and when you can't even make him understand your feelings!!
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ignore him.
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what the heck? so he's obviously not doing ANYTHING right. ignore him, hopefully he'll come around. and if he doesn't, well do you really want to spend your life with someone like him?
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bq..you also stay low and dunt try to call him or talk to him at all..jsut like he is doing with u..phir woh curious hojaiga ke y ur not trying to contact him and what happneed to u, kehi tum to usse naraz nehi ho? he will think..then he will try to contact u himself..
watch this will work..baas thora sa sabr karo..
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you gotta be firm, stand up for your rights! if he wants to cheat, let him cheat, but don't let yourself be beat! ie; dump him
Yeah, because playing mind games is such a great way to build trust and a lasting relationship. 
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You two deserve each other.
bq..you also stay low and dunt try to call hizm or talk to him at all..jsut like he is doing with u..phir woh curious hojaiga ke y ur not trying to contact him and what happneed to u, kehi tum to usse naraz nehi ho? he will think..then he will try to contact u himself..
watch this will work..baas thora sa sabr karo..
OR he might not call u at all to find out if u r mad @ him or not coz he has already got his eyes on some other gal. wake up girl he's just not that into u.
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BQ since u two liv far away how did u find out abt his online flirting?
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^ But will it seriously work ?
^ But will it seriously work ?
Girl, I love you for the sake of Allah and all, but you've *got *to be kidding me.
No, it won't work, are you nuts? The raison d'etre of the rolling eyes smiley face is to express sarcasm.
PLEASE don't get married yet. You could really benefit from a few more years of studying human nature.
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Girl, I love you for the sake of Allah and all, but you’ve *got *to be kidding me.
No, it won’t work, are you nuts? The raison d’etre of the rolling eyes smiley face is to express sarcasm.
** PLEASE don’t get married yet. You could really benefit from a few more years of studying human nature**. /QUOTE]
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Awww, come here. 
There. I’m not trying to be mean. Just telling you seriously as someone who has been around for awhile before you were even a twinkle in your mom’s eye. You’ll be a lot happier and more successful in your marriage if you take the time to build a foundation—knowing yourself better, getting a better understanding of human nature, effective communication, etc.
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^ Yeah, i understand what you mean :)
