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Going through this http://www.paklinks.com/gs/life-relationships/331252-issue-fiance-3.html you people will be having an idea what iam going through currently.Now,after me catching him flirting online,he brought in the topic of “trust” in between,and it’s been a couple of days that he isn’t talking to me.Currently he is another country,so when i call him,he doesn’t answer my calls,no matter how many times i try,neither does he reply to so many of my emails i have been sending to him.What should i do?It seems the relationship between us is already over and so does the engagement 
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have patience,dont start jumping around and running to conclusions
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Somebody once told me that your engagement period is a snap shot of what your marriage will be like. Perhaps her theory applies in this case.
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^Doesnt apply in every case.
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i did advice u in ur other thread that do not call him at all n ignore him completely. the more u run n try to make up the more arrogance he'll show. if he doesn't care to talk to u y should u b bothered? hav some self respect n don't beg him to talk to u.
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it doesn't apply in every case.....but more often than not it does.
one shouldn't think of throwing away the baby with the bath water.....so give him a chance.
everyone has a learning curve.....perhaps this is going to be his.
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At this very moment He is not taking you seriously.
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sometimes it feels that people just want attention on this forum that they cant get in real lives ....
it doesn't apply in every case.....but more often than not it does. one shouldn't think of throwing away the baby with the bath water.....so give him a chance. everyone has a learning curve.....perhaps this is going to be his.
For the time being, he is not even willing to speak to me, so how do i give him a chance?I dont really think he is even asking for a chance.
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beautyqueen, he is punishing you. It's a manipulation tactic to get you to do what he wants, which is for you to feel bad and eventually do whatever necessary to please him. Most people fall for it. If you feel you are being mistreated, you are probably right. Follow your gut instincts. I'm not advocating you dumping him, but at least stand up for yourself. Honestly, putting up with this kind of behaviour is so hard cause then you sit there asking yourself for hours, "what did I do? what can i do to make him happy? what can I do to make him accept me", etc. etc. I bet you it's no longer about him flirting with other women, but now about him ignoring you or about you trying to get him to forgive YOU. Once he starts talking to you again, you'll probably just be in lala land that he's talking to you again and everything he did will be wiped out. I really hope I'm wrong though and he snaps out of it.
Stop begging him. Phoning him every hour is doing exactly that. Leave him a message then leave it up to him to contact you.
If someone mistreats you, do not make excuses for their behaviour or justify it. That's one of the biggest mistakes people do ... justify being mistreated and telling themselves they deserve being ignored, they deserve being sworn at, they deserve being punished, etc.
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^BQ don't read a word after that. That's it.
beautyqueen, he is punishing you. It's a manipulation tactic to get you to do what he wants, which is for you to feel bad and eventually do whatever necessary to please him. Most people fall for it. If you feel you are being mistreated, you are probably right. Follow your gut instincts. I'm not advocating you dumping him, but at least stand up for yourself. Honestly, putting up with this kind of behaviour is so hard cause then you sit there asking yourself for hours, "what did I do? what can i do to make him happy? what can I do to make him accept me", etc. etc. I bet you it's no longer about him flirting with other women, but now about him ignoring you or about you trying to get him to forgive YOU. Once he starts talking to you again, you'll probably just be in lala land that he's talking to you again and everything he did will be wiped out. I really hope I'm wrong though and he snaps out of it.
Stop begging him. Phoning him every hour is doing exactly that. Leave him a message then leave it up to him to contact you.
If someone mistreats you, do not make excuses for their behaviour or justify it. That's one of the biggest mistakes people do ... justify being mistreated and telling themselves they deserve being ignored, they deserve being sworn at, they deserve being punished, etc.
exactly. Beauty when u come here asking for advice u should atleast try it too. not all ppl on GS giv immature advice. some know wat they r taking abt.
just think u r only engaged to him. engagement period is mostly trouble free n loaded with good memories. if ur fiance is showing so much attitude right now he won't b any different as a husband either n will punish u for rest of ur life for becoming his wife.
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you caught him flirting, and he's the one not talking to you? lol.. where's your self-respect?
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You can do so much better!
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Because he tells me i should have trusted him before even doubting him about anything 
chapters 1, cheaters manual.
Dump his sorry A$$ or he is going to drag you down all the time.
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^ So you mean he is a cheater?
That’s what which is not understandable by me is that why should he get so mad if i asked him such a question.If he had asked me such a question, i would have politely explained the entire thing to him without getting mad like this.
So guys is it normal?
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What goes in his head is his problem. You got to protect your self.
Having a relation don't mean you let ppl hurt you. Husbands beat their wife to death.
Him being fiancee does not give him right to abuse U.
Knowing all that, if you let that happen then you are the one with bigger issues.
Gud luk.