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when searching for a long term life partner, either permanent gf (common law wife) or wife in the legal sense, is religion the most important thing for you, or is it culture?

I hope to get married in a few years, but this thread is born from a question I was asked by one of my very best friends, a brother who is quite pious.

Would you rather marry a Hindu/Sikh girl or a Muslim girl of standard African stock?

Now this guy knows me too well, so my “correct” answer was laughed off. shrugs

Point being, does faith always come first?

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moved to life1

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Ok...:)

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it depends on how religious you are - do you pray? im sure a pakistani/african relationship could work out, very well. as long as your islam driven.
hindus and sikhs have very similar culture to us so understanding is already there. this options for those willing for some turbulence later, when the novelty wears off and minor directional changes are needed (such as for the wife to stay away from muslim hating cuzzers)
but as pakistani muslims are plentiful everywhere in all walks of life just makes more sense to get married to a pakistani.

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Yes, I am fully open to marrying a Pakistan. I love my own people, and think many many Pakistani girls are beautiful.

It was just a hypothetical I was faced with.

Personally, I am not a religious man, so I was able to lean towards the heritage side of things. If I married a black, imagine the social ridicule.

Plus, I am not attracted to blacks par se.

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Point being, does faith always come first?

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Let me get this straight, are you asking us whether personal beauty is bigger than religious affiliation/ faith?

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yes for me .. faith always comes first

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does the hindu/sikh girl look like phoolandevi or tuntun and the muslim girl of standard african stock look like beyonce?

please clarify..

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or your animal instincts for reproduction have priority over your faith.

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I’m not sure who or what a phoolandevi is…some ethnic thing.

No, the ave African chick does not look like Beyonce, you know that.

We all know what an average black chick looks like, big bum, funny hair, wide nose…

I dont have to describe it. Your in the US, you have loads of Blacks there.

Yes, essentially.

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Now thats the question of the day :hehe:

but you know what they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
Besides that, there isnt much logic behind the question. :slight_smile:

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And you say...

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" . " isnt much of a post mate.

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:hehe: @ above several posts

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hey Ness, :wave:

**legbreakgoogly : **you can find a mate in the jungle or at the zoo !

You are british right? I ll talk to you in a british way then :smiley:

allright then bloke, wa I meant to say wuz tha the bloke’s bloke friends question didnt have any logic behind it INNIT!

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I am British, but I’m not from London, I dont talk like that.

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plus its a really bad impersonation anyways :)

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^ We all know what an average black chick looks like, big bum, funny hair, wide nose...

I dont have to describe it. Your in the US, you have loads of Blacks there.

................... pretty sarcastic :(