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I want to marry that hot chic from "The Departed" and then revert her to Islam.

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the most important is allways physical attraction...anything else comes after

and people pretending else are lyers....

maybe "pious", but lyers;)

i'm not saying look is more important than faith or mind...i tend to think else, but let's face it...who would NOT look or listen to their significant other??

hmmmmmmm...only those never meeting their spouse before marriage

tells you a lot about anyone priority

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yah I agree. I'm just open about my shallowness. Looks > anything.

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than go ahead , and get into the long line......................... before it's loo late

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Not sure I follow you sunshine.

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Faith always comes first no matter what. I would only marry a muslim.

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Well not for me on this issue, if you love someone then that is a genuine feeling. I am sure those issues could be worked out later but it is wrong to love someone and marry another person just because she was from a diffrent faith. We are all children of god and we are all humans.

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Not all of us.

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**Usually not always but it does become very important when things start falling apart...............:( **

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If we are speaking in the context of settling down, getting married and having kids then for me it would be of the utmost importance that we share the same faith cos the faith is the main aspect of your culture...it matters more than the fact that you eat the same food, listen to the same music and speak the same language...so for me definitely an African woman over a Hindu...

Obviously if one sees an issue with a Muslim black woman in comparison to a Sikh then obviously for them their faith is not the most relevant part of their culture...

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Yah faith is pretty marginal to my make-up.

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That means you're willing to marry an African? :o

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What’s wrong with marrying an African,? :confused:

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Lol i see racial arrogance still exists on Gupshup...yes i would be more than happy to marry a Muslim African...

I find it amusing that some would look down at a woman who shares ones faith and lifestyle becuase of ethnicity yet have no problem with people whos faith and lifestyle completely contradicts your own...

So yeh ill take my african kids to the mosque and you can go take your kids for pooja...

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It doesnt follow that the kids would be non Muslims. Just very irreligious in all probability.

I salute your commitment to Islam, even if it would mean semi-groid kids.

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Our "Faith" mostly influences our complete attitude towards different aspects of our life, so if a person himself is faithful and sensitive towards his beliefs, it becomes very difficult to live with a person of a different faith as it might lead to alot of arguements and conflicts, specially when it comes to the decision of their children's education

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Legbreakgoogly...
What exactly is a semi groid kid?...anyhow some of the best looking kids are mixed...so whilst it may be a problem for you to have an asian/arab kid with golden skin and naturally curly hair it isnt a problem for me...black and mixed chicks can definitely work it for me...

But yeah like i stated i wouldnt settle with one if she didnt share my faith...for you it may be ok to have irreligious kids...for me i want my kids to have faith...

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I didnt mention mixed chicks. I'm talking 100% pure Black. From the deepest, darkest backwaters of Africa.

A semi groid is just that, half a groid.

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Yes, never contested that.

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perhaps u need to look again.....not all africans r the same! have u seen ethiopians? they have such sharp features.....their women are beautiful.....many of them look like models!

...and what about egyptians, moroccans, libyans, tunisians....are they not from africa?