Re: Guys who just wanna talk
Hmm how do I break this to you… this is just my 2 cents but its what I found:
If his pattern consists of 3-4 texts, silence, then 4 days later another few texts… it more than likely means he is texting other women too.
sorry but if there is anything i have learned from living in the western world my whole life and having the misfortune of talking to several men in my more shameful days, its that when a guy is interested he is interested. he doesn’t hold back. he doesn’t care if he is rushing. if he likes you, if he wants you then trust me he won’t leave you alone. he’ll want to hear from you everyday, he’ll want to call you and text you and push you to meet him. they don’t hang about.
but if hes going slow, like as slow as a snail, then it means hes holding onto you as a backup but you are currently his number 6 or 7. hes spending more of his minutes badgering number 1 and 2. but she is probably treating them the way he is treating you. your classic love triangle, you want him, he wants someone else but she doesn’t really want him but she is keeping him on his toes just in case she can’t find anyone else and needs a back up plan and he is doing the same thing to you. sorry but thats how todays society is. players, people with a huge sense of entitlement, no one who knows what they really want. exhausting stuff and this is why there are soooo many single people out there
turn the conversation into sex (not telling you to do this, i’m just being hypothetical) and watch how quickly they perk up. now he suddenly wants to text you every single day… yeeeah men are that simple
So true. Also i agree men dont like desperation if you forget about them you will be happier and more care free sometimes they come running back and sometimes not. If they dont know there not interested and if they do know that before they didnt push themselves to keep in contact and dont let emotions take over.