fatboi
April 24, 2015, 2:16pm
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Re: Guys who just wanna talk
If a guy is just texting you now and again… truth is he’s probably just using you for time pass
Re: Guys who just wanna talk
PyariCgudia:
Some guys just want to take things real slow. With the texting age now in swing, seems like this is becoming more and more of a trend. They will want to text you days upon days. Short brief conversations “Hey, what are you upto?”, some small talk, few texts exchanged, then silence, then maybe two days later another “Hey wutsup”. If you give them your number to call, they won’t call. You ask why not, they say “Woah you’re rushing it” or “Why are you so aggressive, we’re just chatting now”.
Maybe it’s because I was born in the 80’s and we didn’t have computers back then. People picked up the phone and talked, and that’s how it was for me until college. I think I joined GS when I was 19, so tail end of high school, but really started using it as a social network in college. Texting didn’t come in until WAAY later, I think I got an iphone in grad school.
So most of my life, YEAH, we picked up the frikkin phone and called each other. Or we visited each other.
I mean, I’ll talk to guys who live in my state, and they don’t even want to pick up the phone and talk. They think moving to the phone line is “too fast”.
WTH, that’s how people communicate! They TALK TO EACH OTHER.
Is this how rishtas are going to be in the future? Endless texting and then omg, when we get to the phone, darn, we know it’s really getting serious up in here!!
Wow! I’m gonna be very straight forward here and sorry about that
Not everything in life is the way you want, pretty basic rule/fact isn’t it?
I don’t really know you but from your post I can say you need to slow down here. Don’t let your desperation take over your personality.
Guys don’t like women who take initiative unless they’re in bed together specially when it comes to marriage/marriage type conversations.
Nothings wrong with you neither with the guy/s you talk to. You’re just over reacting here.
Re: Guys who just wanna talk
Some guys just wanna talk!
Re: Guys who just wanna talk
Hmm how do I break this to you… this is just my 2 cents but its what I found:
If his pattern consists of 3-4 texts, silence, then 4 days later another few texts… it more than likely means he is texting other women too.
sorry but if there is anything i have learned from living in the western world my whole life and having the misfortune of talking to several men in my more shameful days, its that when a guy is interested he is interested. he doesn’t hold back. he doesn’t care if he is rushing. if he likes you, if he wants you then trust me he won’t leave you alone. he’ll want to hear from you everyday, he’ll want to call you and text you and push you to meet him. they don’t hang about.
but if hes going slow, like as slow as a snail, then it means hes holding onto you as a backup but you are currently his number 6 or 7. hes spending more of his minutes badgering number 1 and 2. but she is probably treating them the way he is treating you. your classic love triangle, you want him, he wants someone else but she doesn’t really want him but she is keeping him on his toes just in case she can’t find anyone else and needs a back up plan and he is doing the same thing to you. sorry but thats how todays society is. players, people with a huge sense of entitlement, no one who knows what they really want. exhausting stuff and this is why there are soooo many single people out there
turn the conversation into sex (not telling you to do this, i’m just being hypothetical) and watch how quickly they perk up. now he suddenly wants to text you every single day… yeeeah men are that simple
So true. Also i agree men dont like desperation if you forget about them you will be happier and more care free sometimes they come running back and sometimes not. If they dont know there not interested and if they do know that before they didnt push themselves to keep in contact and dont let emotions take over.
Re: Guys who just wanna talk
Texting is so impersonal and every second sentence ends with “lol” or an emoji; guys who just wanna text are usually serial texters and have a string of girls they’re texting. If they’re not serious, they will text. If they’re serious, they will call.
