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My sister got 1,000.
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My mom didn't let us do any rasms on my siblings' wedding.
She informed our side of the family and the in-laws of my siblings prior to the wedding as she didn't know any rasms (which is SO true) nor did she want any at the wedding. I think this was a wise decision from her side because...errm let me not go there.
But the in-laws did all the rasms that they wanted to in their own house. So all was good for the most part.
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At my wedding, sis got money for chunni tanna (Where you stop the baraat at the door with a dupatta and dont let them in until the dulha gives some money). I think she started with 500 and got 200 at the end. ANd for doodh pilai she asked for 25 cents, not sure if she got those. Like Lusi, ia lso think most of the money was distribted amongst my cousins etc.
even I got money out of those $200! poor choti, she had to distribute it among all of us. :D
by the way, at my sis' wedding, I got Rs. 5000(they started with Rs.10 though) and on my wedding my sis got Rs. 10,000(again, it started with Rs. 100)... I guess both my bil and my husband knew about the amount in advance so no big deal!
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If you have a brother then you can ask him for naig on his wedding (spell) 
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^ isnt’ it called (i know im butchering it) __________ , when brother gives something to the sisters on his wedding? I got money each from my brother and my cousins weddings… 
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lol you did butcher it... :p
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lol it sounded awkward even writing that!
so whats it called?
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Oh and another thing....
rasams are fun when ur the recipient, but honest to god they are the msot boringest things i've ever seen. why put the guests through that torture? I think i was even falling asleep during mine!!
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^ Are you talking USD/CD ya Rupees???? if its dollars....thats just mind boggling how anyone can get that much money! itnay kameenaY!
Well he wanted to give it to them and he didn't mind, probably he was thinking he is getting the girl (yeah well a girl who was a bit to expensive and not worth it). but he always says he doesnt have the money butt that day all the dollars came out automatically.
Yes those girls were kameenay and laalchi..they just jumped on us and like they were so tez they made it so big of a issue and got serious...we weren't even bothered about joota chori until they started running..like hey ran outside the hall, on the other street so you can imagine how desperate they were..probably theyy already made a wishlist and decided for the guy to pay for them like he still does for everything they do.
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Well he wanted to give it to them and he didn't mind, probably he was thinking he is getting the girl (yeah well a girl who was a bit to expensive and not worth it). but he always says he doesnt have the money butt that day all the dollars came out automatically. * *Yes those girls were kameenay and laalchi..they just jumped on us and like they were so tez they made it so big of a issue and got serious...we weren't even bothered about joota chori until they started running..like hey ran outside the hall, on the other street so you can imagine how desperate they were..probably theyy already made a wishlist and decided for the guy to pay for them like he still does for everything they do.
Wow....
dude im speechless...
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Haha...its ok everyone is..especially when they see the couple :p
sarcasm not at the best though
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poor dudes! first the mehr, then the general expense of the wedding, then the joota churai, then the part where the bride’s brothers dont let him get out of the car until theyr’e paid, then the rasm where His sisters/ cousins dont let his wife enter the house w/o payment, then mouN dikha’e… becharey mard
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we just have mehndi ki rasams and joota ki rasam i didnt know people could thugo-fy grooms even more - i will do all this in my sisters wedding Inshallah hehehe :D
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if i have two sisters and they are gonna give my husband the glass of milk at the wedding, how much money is normal for him to give them in total?
Me and my sister got 5,000 rupees each from my brother-in-law, which i think was more than enough.
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i dunno. abut the milk buh..on my cousins wedding we had a jhota chupai.n the four os us got 800$ after a 10 min fight lol...i thought it was alot..
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that milk must have been from a cow made of gold.
aaahhhahahahahhaha I can get my wedding dress made for that kindda money...
$4,000 :D
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^ Are you talking USD/CD ya Rupees???? if its dollars....thats just mind boggling how anyone can get that much money! itnay kameenaY!
aaaaaaaaaahahahahahahah...I wish I'd a sister :D
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why do they give milk to the groom? I never understood that...can someone tell me why?
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My cousin got married recently, her husband gave diamond ear rings to two younger sisters, we were actually expecting money so basically cousins didnt get even a penny 