CP. women can find other women's physique/body/curves nice and appreciate them as well.. but u seldom get to hear a guy appreciate any other guys' physique without using the "gay/homo" term. Jealousy perhaps?
But here we're talking abt just tight clothes.. no makeup! If a guy wears tight clothes men call him "gay" if a women wears tight clothes and is fit, women find her fit and appreciate her figure too rathar than calling her any names..
that's not true, we guys appreciate too but not in a feminine way obviously!
but i wasn't even referring to this false worldly image.. i was saying Allah has commanded us NOT to wear tight shape revealing clothes.
CP. women can find other women's physique/body/curves nice and appreciate them as well.. but u seldom get to hear a guy appreciate any other guys' physique without using the "gay/homo" term. Jealousy perhaps?
But here we're talking abt just tight clothes.. no makeup! If a guy wears tight clothes men call him "gay" if a women wears tight clothes and is fit, women find her fit and appreciate her figure too rathar than calling her any names..
Let me crack the code for you honey,
1-women want to get their features(physical too) appreciated, so the had this desire to dress tight and stuff.
2-guy appreciate women's feature.
3-Guys don't usally have desired to get their physical feature appreciated.
4-Every city in the west have those areas were GAY men/women live.
Walk down there you wont see anything But TIGHT clothing on Men.
Women(who dont hate gays) are know to appropriate certain things about gay men.
I didn't pay attention on the reply's on that thread but i can guess most of the replys was gorping at guy's on tv/movies right?
If a guy walks right passed me dresses hot. my jaws wont drop and i wont start talking in "goo ga ga"
Adra i dont exactly know what part ur calling "sad" but tht was true what i said. btw my bruv is a british guy and 21, so i dont really need to say much abt him. British guy, 21, fast cars u get the pic....
if my brother is looking out for me i would not call tht "sad" i have protective brothers sometimes can be hell sometime good but not "Sad" and in this case i would say its all good. Double standards i know but thats how it is in our society if guys go out and mess around with girls with bad intentions, do you think they would let there sisters go out like that knowing how guys are, good intentions or not?
my views on women wearing tight clothes is influenced by "Islam" women should dress appropriately and not to get attention of a next person figure to die for or not. A married women should dress for her husband and what he likes to see her in. I like do dress good and i do, but dress for my self, and it's not all about dress sense either, its the way u carry urself and ur whole body language...
libass hi sab se pehlay nazar aata hai...issi ko kehtay hain first-impression
Absolutely right!
and this is why!
useless thread really. Would you really stop wearing tight clothes if i say girls look awful wearing them?.. girls purposely wear tight clothing and when some guy checks them out.. they go all crazy. Make up your mind girls.. either dont complain when guy checks u out or stop wearing this kind of revealing clothes.
PM, if guys didn't want attention they'd all roam the streets in their lunghi/banyaans! They want to be noticed.. and to show-off their toned bodies and that is why they wear tight shirts.. guys will look at girls in tight clothes.. girls will look at guys in tight shirts.
The sad bit was intended for how its okay for him to go out and mess with girls, forget religion, thats just unethical.
The girls he messes with are also someone's sisters and daughters. You arent the only sister in the world. What he thinks is wrong for his sister should be wrong for other women too.
No I dont get the fast cars and 21 years bit. Not all boys at that age prefer fast cars and like to mess around with women and then demand a virgin to get married to.
I have a brother too, and he's the aklota one in the family which means he's spoiled to the max. At 21 he was concentrating on his studies, holding down a job and dating the love of his life. He's married to her now with mashallah a son. Did i mention he's an Amreekan?? :)
Adra i dont exactly know what part ur calling "sad" but tht was true what i said. btw my bruv is a british guy and 21, so i dont really need to say much abt him. British guy, 21, fast cars u get the pic....
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100% correcto, as a brit 21 year old (back in the 90s) yeah I was just after one thing when it came to women. Its kind of a rule, if you are a brit, and 21 and into fast cars, and fashion, you kinda just use women and have a new one every other weekend. it would be a new one every weekend, but teh seocnd time around is for nostalgic reasons.
you did not need anything to say about it, but I thought I would clarify. Any ways tight clothes or loose clothes did not matter, they were going to come off eventually anyways.
The sad bit was intended for how its okay for him to go out and mess with girls, forget religion, thats just unethical.
The girls he messes with are also someone's sisters and daughters. You arent the only sister in the world. What he thinks is wrong for his sister should be wrong for other women too.
adre, I was against this sort of unethical behavior so usually tried to mess arond with girls who did not have any siblings. so they really were not anyone else's sisters.
adre, I was against this sort of unethical behavior so usually tried to mess arond with girls who did not have any siblings. so they really were not anyone else's sisters.
thanks for softening up the blow
