~*Girlzs with Tight clothes*~

[rainyday]

Re: ~Girlzs with Tight clothes~

I think there is a way to dress, so for instance lets say you wear skinny jeans but wear a dress so it isn't like your flaunting your boday so it is okay. I think a person should wear fitted clothing according to their size not too tight (sluty) or too big (frumpy).

My bro is 18 i know he has had abt 2 girlfriends at diff times and he isn't into the player thing. But he loves footie and cars. He knows that a guy should treat girls well as he's got sisters and one day will have daughters of his own.

[Adrasteia]

@X2

hmmm what about middle aged men in minivans

oye TLk jaldi idher aao

How about No

[X2]

Re: ~Girlzs with Tight clothes~

so getting back to the topic, I still dont understand why we spend so much effort on this. clothes can be tight yet tasteful and loose and tasteless...havign seen loose see through lawn shalwar suits in pak, i can attest to that. (three cheers for lawn fabric walay)

i personally cant wear tight shirts, because if i take a deep breath toh toond wala button toot kar bazooka ki tarah 200 feet agay jata hai. laiokin for those who wantto wear them, let em, guys and girls...what someone else wears is not going to have an impact on our afterlife.

[dildirani]

@X2

so getting back to the topic, I still dont understand why we spend so much effort on this. clothes can be tight yet tasteful and loose and tasteless…havign seen loose see through lawn shalwar suits in pak, i can attest to that. (three cheers for lawn fabric walay)

i personally cant wear tight shirts, because if i take a deep breath toh toond wala button toot kar bazooka ki tarah 200 feet agay jata hai. laiokin for those who wantto wear them, let em, guys and girls…what someone else wears is not going to have an impact on our afterlife.

But everything you said, you said truthfully (apart from the three cheers bit!)

Live and let be!

[Reha]

Re: ~Girlzs with Tight clothes~

Okay, so the bottom line is wear clothes that are tasteful and classy...not skin tight and trashy.

Deep down inside all of us know when we are wearing see through clothes or things that are too tight. Just use your better judgement and stay away!!!

[TLK]

@PSquared

Okay, so the bottom line is wear clothes that are tasteful and classy…not skin tight and trashy.

**Deep down inside all of us know when we are wearing see through clothes or things that are too tight. **Just use your better judgement and stay away!!!

nicely put :k:

[Adrasteia]

@TLK

nicely put :k:

put kidhar kiya??

[Croquet]

@X2

so getting back to the topic, I still dont understand why we spend so much effort on this. clothes can be tight yet tasteful and loose and tasteless…havign seen loose see through lawn shalwar suits in pak, i can attest to that. (three cheers for lawn fabric walay)

i personally cant wear tight shirts, **because if i take a deep breath toh toond wala button toot kar bazooka ki tarah 200 feet agay jata hai. **laiokin for those who wantto wear them, let em, guys and girls…what someone else wears is not going to have an impact on our afterlife.

[CE]

interesting stuff…

[navaidishere]

@Colourful eyes

What's the difference between a girlfriend wearing revealing clothes to a wife or A Sister wearing them?

**Love vs Liberalism
The whole debate of why someone would instruct their sister to dress appropriately and not somebody they see on the street, is a typical case of Love vs Liberalism.

Love
When you love someone, you want the best for them and thats what love really is, you do things when others don't even want them done.

For example, your mum would be happy to have a gay friend, but would she like having a gay son? Thats a good example of Love vs Liberalism.

Bottomline, your mum is happy to be a part of liberal society but she loves you and wants the best for you from her own perspective.

Liberalism
On the other hand, Liberalism, is part of our society that pushes for individualism inside every person. You don't love a person walking down the street enough to ask them to change something.

For example, I saw someone on street playing extraordinary yukalaylee jingles and I offered him to record his music for free and then he can send it out to music companies but he refused. I can't force him to do it even though it is in his best interest.

Similarly, I would instruct someone I love how to dress but not someone I see on the street. This is far from hypocrisy.

**

[Straight_up]

Re: ~Girlzs with Tight clothes~

^ and how does this relate to girls with tight clothes?

[navaidishere]

Re: ~Girlzs with Tight clothes~

^^ I’m simply answering the question posted.

[Straight_up]

Re: ~Girlzs with Tight clothes~

^ Ahaan, after editing it.

[navaidishere]

Re: ~Girlzs with Tight clothes~

^^^ Yeeeeeeeeeeeshhh!! I realized it didn't make any sense without quoting the question being asked :D

[CE]

The sad bit was intended for how its okay for him to go out and mess with girls, forget religion, thats just unethical.

The girls he messes with are also someone's sisters and daughters. You arent the only sister in the world. What he thinks is wrong for his sister should be wrong for other women too.

No I dont get the fast cars and 21 years bit. Not all boys at that age prefer fast cars and like to mess around with women and then demand a virgin to get married to.

I have a brother too, and he's the aklota one in the family which means he's spoiled to the max. At 21 he was concentrating on his studies, holding down a job and dating the love of his life. He's married to her now with mashallah a son. Did i mention he's an Amreekan?? :)

100% correcto, as a brit 21 year old (back in the 90s) yeah I was just after one thing when it came to women. Its kind of a rule, if you are a brit, and 21 and into fast cars, and fashion, you kinda just use women and have a new one every other weekend. it would be a new one every weekend, but teh seocnd time around is for nostalgic reasons.

you did not need anything to say about it, but I thought I would clarify. Any ways tight clothes or loose clothes did not matter, they were going to come off eventually anyways.

lol it's funny how we talk about guys in tight shirts and it's all good, and when the topic changes to women and tight clothes it all get's serious......

First of all X2 may be i shouldn't of said anything bcoz seems like from my few lines of words tht i have described my brother, he is a this big "sad" guy, which i find hilarious. how people gather this picture in their head of a person from just a mouthful of words and then let their imaginations get carried away with them(fast cars= fast women? New girls every weekend? virgin brides? HAHAHAHA!) i could explain in more detail, but i dont find it necessary to be telling my brothers business on a forum, btw Adra MashAllah my brother is also studying, and holding down a fulltime job only difference is he has many "loves" in his life..:p

On a serious note im sure we all know men "who are much more "sad" including those who are married both fathers and Mothers. seems like people seem to think that i am boasting, let me make myself clear. I only mentioned what i did about my brother becoz it was related to the thread end of! i dont need to be telling strangers about my families business to appear "better" then others, Adra if you read my original post tht you commented on, you would of also read me questioning him about it, i dont agree with what he does but he still does it,(brian wave~ thread "Men and their Double standards") im sure many people know similar "sad" people, but becoz i mentioned it im getting the blow? funny!

p.s. X2 " Any ways tight clothes or loose clothes did not matter, they were going to come off eventually anyways"

^Awful!

[Sidra54]

@TLK

if a guy shoes up without his shirt, wont you look at him couple of times regardless of how sexy or disgusting he is looking

shoes up

[CE]

@rainyday

I think there is a way to dress, so for instance lets say you wear skinny jeans but wear a dress so it isn’t like your flaunting your boday so it is okay. I think a person should wear fitted clothing according to their size not too tight (sluty) or too big (frumpy).

good point thumbs up

@PSquared

Deep down inside all of us know when we are wearing see through clothes or things that are too tight. Just use your better judgement and stay away!!!

very well said wise one…

[CE]

Love vs Liberalism

The whole debate of why someone would instruct their sister to dress appropriately and not somebody they see on the street, is a typical case of Love vs Liberalism.

Love When you love someone, you want the best for them and thats what love really is, you do things when others don't even want them done.

*For example, your mum would be happy to have a gay friend, but would she like having a gay son? Thats a good example of Love vs Liberalism. *

Bottomline, your mum is happy to be a part of liberal society but she loves you and wants the best for you from her own perspective.

Liberalism On the other hand, Liberalism, is part of our society that pushes for individualism inside every person. You don't love a person walking down the street enough to ask them to change something.

For example, I saw someone on street playing extraordinary yukalaylee jingles and I offered him to record his music for free and then he can send it out to music companies but he refused. I can't force him to do it even though it is in his best interest.

*Similarly, I would instruct someone I love how to dress but not someone I see on the street. This is far from hypocrisy. *

nicely put Navid

[cricketplaya]

Re: ~Girlzs with Tight clothes~

so what's the point of this thread? is it about tight clothes vs loose clothes? or brothers thinking for the good of their sisters?

[CE]

@PunchingMonk

\well check the thread!!
you will know.

ok have done, and this is my summary:

~John Abraham is hot

~Men in tight shirts look gay

~Salman khan should stop taking his top off

~ and John Abraham is still hot

what did i learn? nothing:bummer:

@cricketplaya

so what’s the point of this thread? is it about tight clothes vs loose clothes? or brothers thinking for the good of their sisters?

good to see u edited ur post, lets stick to the topic what people think of tight and revealing clothes…