Re: Girls in the west, after shaadi want to move out
Well, isn't that just fantastic?
Appeartly Guppies were concerned about the plight of MILs, SILs and other ILLs, so they decided to take a step from their busy lives and disscuss this important and most concerning issue facing our society today.
So I just wanted to take the time to thank all these generous Guppies who could not find a better public relations opportunity. God Bless you All.
Re: Girls in the west, after shaadi want to move out
Yep, personally I never found him attractive or even his acting. No offense but I don't like him :)
Re: Girls in the west, after shaadi want to move out
Appeartly Guppies were concerned about the plight of MILs, SILs and other ILLs, so they decided to take a step from their busy lives and disscuss this important and most concerning issue facing our society today.
So I just wanted to take the time to thank all these generous Guppies who could not find a better public relations opportunity. God Bless you All.
thank you!! :p
Re: Girls in the west, after shaadi want to move out
Maddy, I have the same problem. My sister is redecorating my room and I havnt even moved out yet :(
Re: Girls in the west, after shaadi want to move out
8 pages later, we're still at square 1. How about this proposition: all the girls who want a separate house, buy one before getting married. It would make life so much easier for the guy as well.
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^single women buying their own real estate is still kinda uncommon among non-desi/non Muslims (at lesat i thinkso) so i think it’d be downright 
for desi women.. but hey more power to her if she does! 
Re: Girls in the west, after shaadi want to move out
LOL… why do we need men then 
If we can buy our own house, we can certainly support ourownselves, why take any crap from anyone …lol 
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^, yep, thats what i say.
But my parents seem to disagree :(
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Taking crap = stroking his male ego. Women play their vulnerability to please the man. Man is hooked onto it like a crackhead is on crack. If you tell him you dont wanna stroke his ego anymore, then get ready for the much anticipated gender war. Load up that AK-47 and move to Amazonia.
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Re: Girls in the west, after shaadi want to move out
i can’t:(…as non pakistani i don’t have to right to buy a house :Dlol…an excuse to live with inlaws 
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i had a desi coworker who had bought her own flat…and she moved there with her parents 
(they were too poor to buy real estate themselves)
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I really don't understand all of the fuss about this issue. Why do boys refuse to even consider the idea of living with their wife on their own for the first few years of marriage, and then ask their parents to move in when they are in need of care? This is the Islamic way of doing things.
To Anil and the other "boys" here (I saw very few men who were actuallly mature enough to be married reply in this forum) - do remember when you marry that your wife's parents have just as much right over her as your parents have over you. You may not stop her from visiting her family or helping them in any way that she can. If they are in financial need, you should either be prepared to help out, or allow her to find employment so that she may help out. Fear Allah (SWT).
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Ladies, question you for. What if the guy you like already has his own house and his old parents are living with him. Remember, the house belongs to him (as he is bearing all the house's expenses) but out of respect he lets his parents pretend they run the house (i.e. let them be parents).
Will you then ask him to kick his parents out just so you can be alone with him? Or would you ask him to dump that house, let his parents rot to death and buy another house just so the two of you can be alone?
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I think thats a different situation, i’d still like to live alone, but i wudn’t mind that either.. 
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^ You wouldnt mind doing what either?
It is a situation after all, and not an uncommon one.
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as long as they run the house, and not over me, it’s fine :k:, i’ll smile to them and say salaam to his mom anytime i see her 
Re: Girls in the west, after shaadi want to move out
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Re: Girls in the west, after shaadi want to move out
How about marrying a third or fourth door neighbour ?
