Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

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i mean WTH is goin on here all i hear on GS is shadi shadi shadi shadi…

kisi ki ho nai rai..koi dhund rahi hai..kisi ki shadi mein problems hai..kiski ki tut rai hai..kisi ko zabardasti karni hai shadi..kisi ne jaldi karli to ro rai hai..kisiki bahen ki horai hai pehle to she is jealous..kisiki hogai hai to 10 din mein he shes crying..koi puch rai hai shadi karo ya masters..koi yeh soch rai hai apne dad ko kaise bataye tht she wants to get married by 22!!!

COME ON GURLS…!!!

are life1 problems only shadi related?

i mean is shadi the only thing on ur mind gurls?

why is every topic related to shadi? and its not the guys they r keeping it cool..its the gurlsss!!! there used to be a time where gurls would tell their mom dunt get us married young, now educated modern gurls wana get married by 22 (its their personal choice i respect it) but what i dont get it isnt it becoming out of hand why are ur lives revolving around SHADI ?

i really wana know y is shadi the main concern of an gurl..why are gurls rushing into it?i wana get married too like any other gurl to but i havnt made it the centre of my life..why have u all?

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

I want you to get married.

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

i want to get married too but whenever it has to happen it will im not dieing for it hehe :p

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

Cg. The reason being is that. Most Gs members are adults 18+. As an adult partnership is a big part of your life along with other things. So, the reason majority revolves around marriage, marriage related problems is because of the stage of life they are in. I have also seen threads about work issues, kids issues and such. You are thinking from your age point of view and i agree at that age a person should concentrate on other things as well such as education. Yet it mainly has to do with the fact that most people here are adults or becoming adults.

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

I agree with Tlucky8 here, people are at different stages of their life and seek genuine (or not in some cases) advice for their individual circumstances!

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

You can still be 'educated' and 'modern' but still be married. I know if i get married ALOT of doors will open for me to be successful. I wud rather move out and have a HOME then a crappy little flat where i wud have to work 2 jobs to pay the rent. I'd rather have the love and support from family.

I know once im married i can STILL be a successful career minded woman. Just because you get married doesnt mean you cant DO anything. Majority of women that do their degree's DONT bother doing ANYTHING after marriage only have kids and start nagging their husbands! I wud rather get married have a career keep busy then start a family.

My boyfriend has ALWAYS encourage'd me to do what i LOVE. And that means alot to me, he always says im encouraging you to do it for urself, not for me. I know i cud be married and sorted for life without ever doing any type or work. Alhumdulillah. But i dont wanna do that i wanna keep busy and do my HOBBY as a career. It makes so much more sense to do stuff when your married if you hav the support, and open minded inlaws!!!! :p

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

In this forum 90% problems are posted by the girls.I pity girls.they are never happy in any state.their lives are full of miseries and troubles.if u dont believe me,have a look at the topics of this forum urself.

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

^ Girls wudnt have problems if Men never existed. Its as simple as that really.

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marraige = the fastest form of financial transaction

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

somone else posted this same topic yet about why are grls obsessed with marriage ... please refer to that

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

who posted it?

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^^ why are people obsessed with making threads about why people on here are obsessed with threads about marriage :p

Ask a Christian
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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

Girls come here with real problems if ur tired of hearing about their marriage related problems I suggest u stick to cafe

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why don't you show them some light and start threads on different topics...

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

That is because they are so lame and typical. And you are so cool and different.

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

Statistically speaking mostly women on GS are between 18 and 38 . In this age range I think being married is a huge issue . So no wonder we have so many threads about it .

Consider GS a marriage support group :p

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

my point is being married is an issue i agree but its not the ONLY issue..gurls should take it a little lightly its really the only thing on their heads atleast for most of them!

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Re: Girls going mad about the “Marriage” topic…why??

Girls should take marriage lightly? :halo: Im sure that would cause a whole load of more problems :chai:

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nothing wrong they are being realistic unlike the ones … i want to study till 25 or past 30:rolleyes:…

yeh hallo ,you think guys are gonna wait so long!! …you girls want to finish your study, you can do that even when married ..
anyway if sum wanna wait go ahead .. your gonna end up marrying sum1 with quite a reputaion in da neighborhood…marry early ..it keeps 1 away from sin …mundey kuriyo ..shaadi karo ..jaldi… aur abadi karo kuch arsai k baad.:@:.

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Re: Girls going mad about the "Marriage" topic...why??

i think its because its been drilled into them since like FOREVER...and whenever they go out they get asked...shaddi kab ho rahi hai...etc etc?? and then if you really think about it...it is one of the biggest decisions in a person's life...of who you wanna spend the rest of your life with...so of course you'll be thinking about it...but hopefully not to a point of insanity! And most girls have dreamed about that day since they little girls..playing shaddi shaddi lol! So I'd say let them have their fun....and hopefully this fantasy of marriage will live up to their expectations lol!