Re: What to do
So you wouldn’t even inform your husband before you leave the house to go somewhere and how long you will be staying out? This much courtesy is expected in all cultures and families. There is no relationship if you think your spouse isn’t worthy of being informed. That’s totally disrespectful. Also, dear Islam also tells Muslim wives to obey their husbands and I have read your blog and you seem to think you are a good Muslim. Don’t twist religion to suit your needs. You have two big reasons to be following these rules: it’s required in culture and religion.
How would you feel if your hone-wala went to see his family and stayed there for hours without ever informing you or consulting you? Also, her mother does not live alone, she lives with her other siblings who are all adults and capable of taking care of their mother. She neglects her own home while she happily volunteers to take care of whatever and whenever she is needed for. Why the hell did she even get married if she wanted zero responsibility? She doesn’t have a job, she does bare minimum in the house and that too when she wants to. His mom takes care of herself. Why does she have so many nakhray? He is even getting her a HOUSE. She is like a pregnant 10 year old. That’s how she is behaving. If I were Difficulty, I would have been sick of her already. Imagine being married to a person who only cared about his rights and never appreciated you!