Why are you giving so much already...save some for after you guys are married. You will quickly learn that romance for most guys is an unknown thing. They will try it once in a while but very few guys will practice it on a regular.
Also, this sense you speak of...is it telling you that he isn't in love with you anymore, or he is cheating on you, or that he isn't romantic.
Guys are insensitive to balance out the sensitive girls. Would you want a guy who cries while watching a Disney movie…I wouldn’t.
Yes, but I want a romantic guy like he said he was/is...
your happiness mustn't be linked to someone else's approval. besides, if it bothers you so much, why don't you call it off? i don't think this 'insensitive' guy will ever be able to appreciate you...you are way too 'anmol'. :)
. I feel like I am putting more effort than him where i'd like him to put mutual effort.
Okay, so you have arrived at the solution to your problem. If putting in more effort from from your end js only making things worse, then try the opposite of that. Back off from him and focus on yourself and give him the space to reach out if he wants to.
Why are men so insensitive in general?.... Honestly, his profession makes him feelingless... I want him to be bit emotional with me sometimes... He works 14 hour shift and I feel like I don't get enough of his time. I thought he solely needed my attention... I cant take his rudeness anymore :o My way or the highway!
He is just your fiance not your husband. There is no " my way or the highway" thing in marriage. Grow up!
I really think a good dose of premarital counseling is in need. You really are making issues out of things that aren't even issues. Marriage will be a whole other ballgame!!!
