I am getting upset these days with my fiance… I sang him a song on the guitar with emotions. The reply he has given me that it didn’t touch his heart because all he could hear was guitar melody but he loves my voice. I feel like he is so insensitive due to his profession! Why can’t I take self criticism lightly? I am so used to being praised. Why did he not do my jhooti tareef? I act tough with him but I am a girl at the end of the day. Criticism helps a person improve but I want him to be sweet to me all the time and encourage me instead of degrading my talent.
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Use air guitar next time. But then you'd be pissed he only heard your touching voice and not the "malady" you strummed.
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Use air guitar next time. But then you'd be pissed he only heard your touching voice and not the "malady" you strummed.
Why are men so insensitive in general?.... Honestly, his profession makes him feelingless... I want him to be bit emotional with me sometimes... He works 14 hour shift and I feel like I don't get enough of his time. I thought he solely needed my attention... I cant take his rudeness anymore :o My way or the highway!
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We can buy guitars with emotions? 
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Vocal and music both consist of emotions… Men, why are you guys so insensitive towards women?
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He works… therefore you barat will come in limousine and valima ride in Ferrari… 
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Vocal and music both consist of emotions... Men, why are you guys so insensitive towards women?
Maybe he expects more sensitivity or understanding from you since you know he works the 14 hour shift.
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I don’t need a ferrari if the guy is not sensitive about my feelings… Also, he tells me that he misses me but I dont believe him when his actions doesn’t approve of that. He doesn’t have much time to talk to me, however, he calls me everyday.
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Maybe he expects more sensitivity or understanding from you since you know he works the 14 hour shift.
He is feelingless and I don't know how to push him away...
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yeh kesi baat kardi… ab kiya job chor kar tumhary sath beth jaye…
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I don’t know but he needs to pick up other people’s call when he is talking to me. I just find that disrespectful and insensitive.
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I feel like he is not giving me his full attention. I start speculating his emotionless behavior. He tells me that he doesn't show but he misses me... What the hell is wrong with men these days?.... I thought action speaks louder than words.
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WOW, just wow. Can you post your emotional guitar playing and singing in the voice gallery?
I can't WAIT till you guys get married, I have a feeling the forums will be very entertaining.
Now, in all seriousness, you sound like a 16 year old brat, you are way too young to get married. If these non-issues are upsetting to you, I would strongly advise that you put your wedding on hold until you grow up. BachoN waali baatein, "why doesn't he praise my booootiful singing?". I swear to GOD!
You keep asking "What the hell is wrong with men", well what the hell is wrong with YOU? He works 14 hour days, probably sleeps about 8, that leaves 2 hours for khaana peena nahaana dhona, and you want him to spend his precious time placating your nonsense? You REALLY need to grow up, like for real, sachi mucchi, jhoot moot nahi, waqai mein, GROW UP!
Maybe he is more of a ghunghroo kind of guy than guitar kind of, if you know what I mean
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Maybe record a song and send it to him rather singing live so he could enjoy it on his own time....
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Maybe record a song and send it to him rather singing live so he could enjoy it on his own time....
YouTube it as well.
Sorry BSB :(
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i am so sorry, BSB. next time play this guitar. he vill the like it. 
aur sunao je. how have you been? office romeo update?
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Jokes aside, what aahmed said. Getting worked up over tiny things...ain't the way to go :/
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He is on this mobile chatting app all the time even he works 14 hours. I am not a kid, in fact a very strong woman, but I do find him emotionless. Our meetings are only couple hours long due to his time constraints. I feel the need to be more important to him. I dont know who is he chatting on the mobile app.
WOW, just wow. Can you post your emotional guitar playing and singing in the voice gallery?
I can't WAIT till you guys get married, I have a feeling the forums will be very entertaining.
Now, in all seriousness, you sound like a 16 year old brat, you are way too young to get married. If these non-issues are upsetting to you, I would strongly advise that you put your wedding on hold until you grow up. BachoN waali baatein, "why doesn't he praise my booootiful singing?". I swear to GOD!
You keep asking "What the hell is wrong with men", well what the hell is wrong with YOU? He works 14 hour days, probably sleeps about 8, that leaves 2 hours for khaana peena nahaana dhona, and you want him to spend his precious time placating your nonsense? You REALLY need to grow up, like for real, sachi mucchi, jhoot moot nahi, waqai mein, GROW UP!
Well it's great to know that you can play the guitar. What kind if I may ask? Is it acoustic or electric, nylon or steel, six strings or twelve? It will be great if you can just upload the guitar playing online for us.