I am getting upset these days with my fiance.... I sang him a song on the guitar with emotions. The reply he has given me that it didn't touch his heart because all he could hear was guitar melody but he loves my voice. I feel like he is so insensitive due to his profession! Why can't I take self criticism lightly? I am so used to being praised. Why did he not do my jhooti tareef? I act tough with him but I am a girl at the end of the day. Criticism helps a person improve but I want him to be sweet to me all the time and encourage me instead of degrading my talent.
He did tell you he loves your voice. and told you very honestly that he could only hear the melody and not the lyrics so why are you labeling him as insensitive? also why would you want him to do a jhooti tareef? how would that satisfy your self esteem? and if he begins to do your jhooti tareef then again you would always be doubting him.
and this is so childish from you BSB that since you are used to being praised you want him too to praise you all the time. i mean this really isn't a good psyche.
He did tell you he loves your voice. and told you very honestly that he could only hear the melody and not the lyrics so why are you labeling him as insensitive? also why would you want him to do a jhooti tareef? how would that satisfy your self esteem? and if he begins to do your jhooti tareef then again you would always be doubting him.
and this is so childish from you BSB that since you are used to being praised you want him too to praise you all the time. i mean this really isn't a good psyche.
I thought you aren't supposed to be mean to people that you love.... We are fine :p ... I didn't make a big deal to him about it or showed him an ego that it bothered me a bit. Just wanted to let go off my negative feelings. I just want him to run afte me like crazy so I have actually start building my own activities. I have noticed that he is giving me more time by calling several times a day (I don't pick up) while I am distancing myself. Just like him, I am also beeeee gggg
I really think a good dose of premarital counseling is in need. You really are making issues out of things that aren't even issues. Marriage will be a whole other ballgame!!!
Didn't make an issue yaar to him. I do have that much patience... Yahan gupshup per buq buq ker rahi thi...
Oh BSB....yours will truly be a happily ever after.
I hope you and your hubby get your own newly-wed reality tv show so we can see all the drama unfold. Popcorn anyone?
Actually, there is no drama since I don't like arguments. We are both very patient but I was just letting out my feelings :P ... I am very expressive but not to him.
I don't need a ferrari if the guy is not sensitive about my feelings.... Also, he tells me that he misses me but I dont believe him when his actions doesn't approve of that. He doesn't have much time to talk to me, however, he calls me everyday.
dude. chill. try to focus on the real world instead of living in this bubble. he is making time for you despite 14 hr shifts. do u even KNOW what a 14 hr shift feels like?????? and if making time for you means that he has to deal with this instead of something loving and relaxing, hats off to him for still sticking with it!
