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Yay! you are back! :jiia:
What else can you do, BSB? I am amazed at your abilities. 
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We women have the sense of smell engraved in us when we start feeling fishy. He has family commitment on his day off. I have been asking him to take a day off for past 3 months so he can visit me but he can't arrange it. The only way to get a day off is if he is actually sick. I feel like I am putting more effort than him where i'd like him to put mutual effort.
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Maybe he didn’t understand the song?
Play this one, sab kuch samajh jayega
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You guys aren't married yet - only engaged. No need to expect such an 'intense' relationship at this stage. If you speak every day, it should be enough.
Also - seriously, can we see the video of the song? What was the song btw - anything we know, or did you write it yourself? Urdu or English?
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I can't just give, give, and give... I need an equal return... He is telling me that he wants to give all the love to me. I don't buy anything whatever he is saying.... Our meetings are great but it has been over 1.5 months since I saw him last time. The distance is creating a void in my heart for him caz he is not putting any effort to come and visit me. If I was important then he already would have. He better value me but I think most men are insensitive until a woman takes a big step to make him realize that she is not given to him for granted. If he wants me to make him the most important person then he should do the same.
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Why must you do this, BSB? Why oh why? I am patiently waiting for pictures of your grand wedding, ferrari, hsy jora, and singing/guitar playing. Please don’t ruin it. If you are fishing for compliments, you can share your guitar playing video with us. 
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I sang it for him with my heart. Wasn’t expecting such a rude comments…
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I can't just give, give, and give... I need an equal return... He is telling me that he wants to give all the love to me. I don't buy anything whatever he is saying.... Our meetings are great but it has been over 1.5 months since I saw him last time. The distance is creating a void in my heart for him caz he is not putting any effort to come and visit me. If I was important then he already would have. He better value me but I think most men are insensitive until a woman takes a big step to make him realize that she is not given to him for granted.
The guy works 14 hours a day so you could afford to keep your luxurious lifestyle after the wedding. Try working 14 hours a day first and see if you have any time or energy left to eat and shower- let alone praise someone. If you want all the love and praises then tell him you don't want him working 14 hours a day and that it's perfectly fine with you to live on a little less. If you can't do that then lower your expectations.
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Well it's great to know that you can play the guitar. What kind if I may ask? Is it acoustic or electric, nylon or steel, six strings or twelve? It will be great if you can just upload the guitar playing online for us.
Acoustic TLK bahi :) ... Men are so insensitive :(
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The guy works 14 hours a day so you could afford to keep your luxurious lifestyle after the wedding. Try working 14 hours a day first and see if you have any time or energy left to eat and shower- let alone praise someone. If you want all the love and praises then tell him you don't want him working 14 hours a day and that it's perfectly fine with you to live on a little less. If you can't do that then lower your expectations.
He doesn't working 14 hours everyday but that happens occasionally... While he is working, he is on the mobile app all the time. Don't know who are these people who he talks to. He sends me messages too.
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You are funny ;);)… Tell my fiance so he can appreciate all the various hidden talents in me 
lol
Acoustic TLK bahi 
… Men are so insensitive 
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I hate men too
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He is on this mobile chatting app all the time even he works 14 hours. I am not a kid, in fact a very strong woman, but I do find him emotionless. Our meetings are only couple hours long due to his time constraints. I feel the need to be more important to him. I dont know who is he chatting on the mobile app.
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Yeah, you don't sound like a kid at all, very much like a strong woman. People should be taking their cues on maturity from YOU!
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I hate men too
You are one of them :).... Are u sensitive?
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Yeah, you don't sound like a kid at all, very much like a strong woman. People should be taking their cues on maturity from YOU!
I am not a preacher but he can't make up time for me and expects me to give him full attention.
If we could have virtual marriages on GS, I would have had BSB marry Knight 30. Both are full of superb awesomeness.
Kaash aisaa hotaa. :(
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If we could have virtual marriages on GS, I would have had BSB marry Knight 30. Both are full of superb awesomeness.
Kaash aisaa hotaa. :(
Are you making fun of me? I am just demanding my rights since I know my value Allhumdullilah...
Are you making fun of me? I am just demanding my rights since I know my value Allhumdullilah…
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Oye I am not making fun. I see every persons claim as honest and take it seriously. You have qualities that other girls on gs dont have. I am just admiring it. 
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Finally, someone is appreciating me … Kon kon si qualities :))) lol?
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Why are you giving so much already...save some for after you guys are married. You will quickly learn that romance for most guys is an unknown thing. They will try it once in a while but very few guys will practice it on a regular.
Also, this sense you speak of...is it telling you that he isn't in love with you anymore, or he is cheating on you, or that he isn't romantic.
Guys are insensitive to balance out the sensitive girls. Would you want a guy who cries while watching a Disney movie…I wouldn’t.