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Since I butted in the other thread, I will simply say there is some misunderstanding. RV that I have known thru posts over the years is decent. Not privy to all the posts. But just thought I would weigh in.
Re: Full of advise looser.
Since I butted in the other thread, I will simply say there is some misunderstanding. RV that I have known thru posts over the years is decent. Not privy to all the posts. But just thought I would weigh in.
Thank you for your support, I do feel that things got out of hand and hopefully civility will prevail. You know RV more than I do and be willing to accept that I might have misunderstood her intentions.
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Knight30, you are alright! Don't let this get to you. We all speak differently. Sometimes the way people write here get misinterpreted. It's kind of like when you write in all CAPS, it seems like you are screaming!
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This my best friend in the world, he is a massive Georgian guy, his wife is Russian, We are hoping his older daughter and my boy hook up. Our kids grew up together, holidays and all. I had to sign for his cell phone 10 yrs ago and here he is now, all about attitude.
what happened to all that posturing about young men marrying 'battered, abused' girls? for your son you want a girl whose parents are millionaires?
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what happened to all that posturing about young men marrying 'battered, abused' girls? for your son you want a girl whose parents are millionaires?
If he brought one home by god, I will take her as my daughter. I have relieved myself of a huge stress. I give them all the confidence and decision making powers and they will decide who to be with. He is only 15 now. White people usually don't give their kids any money, most of the time the kid has to get a job to support Uni. Allah has given us enough to not to have to look for other peoples money.
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40 yr old virgin > guy who roleplays being his imaginary wife and kids
just a thought.
icono, you have the best cock stories man. <3
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Queer never ceases to amuse.
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40 yr old virgin > guy who roleplays being his imaginary wife and kids
just a thought.
icono, you have the best cock stories man. <3
Add to your imagination 210 lbs 6 ft tall pure muscle and brute strength, 1/2 million a year income working 20 hrs a week, several investment properties, children competing in nationals and achieving honors in school. A most amazingly beautiful wife. Then maybe you will be getting closer to reality. Will this make you loose sleep mr full time 8er.
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if he is all that, then why do you call him a “looser”? is it because some parts of him are a little loose? 
TLK is always right
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Add to your imagination 210 lbs 6 ft tall pure muscle and brute strength, 1/2 million a year income working 20 hrs a week, several investment properties, children competing in nationals and achieving honors in school. A most amazingly beautiful wife. Then maybe you will be getting closer to reality. Will this make you loose sleep mr full time 8er.
If you can put lipstick queer will surely be sleepless.
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TLK is always right
in your dreams :P...
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, but here he is 40 yr old virgin, has no life skills, lives like a pig in dirt and filth, has no family and children, is dependent on family to support him and is shouting out advise about how to be successful in careers, how we should treat our wives and how to raise our children.
are you that guy yourself? how do you knw he lives like filth and dirt and on the top of it knowlegde of his virginity?? too much personal info?
and apparently u are the one who's all over the forum full of advice about raising kids, career and wives
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I am confused!!! Who is the bitter one here!?! You really need to see people and their struggle from their perspective not yours. Not everyone is blessed with the best, plenty have to work 20 hours a day for making ends meat and it doesn't mean their job is menial or any less important. What you said about him said less about him and volumes about you. If you don't like guy, don't talk to him but don't talk down about his life and struggles.
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I am confused!!! Who is the bitter one here!?! You really need to see people and their struggle from their perspective not yours. Not everyone is blessed with the best, plenty have to work 20 hours a day for making ends meat and it doesn't mean their job is menial or any less important. What you said about him said less about him and volumes about you. If you don't like guy, don't talk to him but don't talk down about his life and struggles.
I am talking about him not working and lack of strugglings and bad behavior, lack of money does not prevent you from brushing your teeth and applying deodrant or excercising or being pleasant or being polite. You neeed advice from him go crazy. I don't.
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You sure have insight on his personal lifestyle!!! Opinions are meant to be different and if you don't like his, don't take it. It is completely out of line to tell your friend his bother makes you uncomfortable. Most people will take that offensively. If you don't like hearing his opinion, excuse yourself to use the bathroom or simply make a phonecall.
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Not sure what the fuss is about. People r going to conclude what they want to. OP has made it abundantly clear multiple times he does not disrespect any profession. He simply feels this gentleman closed several doors on himself with his attitude and behavior. OP has had it with this person giving unsolicited advice on matters he is not qualified to.
Bas. Khalaas.
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It's a figment of his imagination so ofcourse he knows every detail of his personal life and hygiene. Duh.
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If the negativity is bothering you, don't engage the guy in conversation. If it's that disruptive, then don't invite him to your gatherings. And if it was really bothering me id stop showing up to those gatherings, if people ask id tell folks the reason.
I've had people be rude to me and I have a zero tolerance policy. Better you do your own thing with your family than get weekly misery by spending time with someone that hurts you, through their negativity or whatever
Muzna has sound advice but sounds like you've already tried being nice and befriending the guy. His brother is worried about him so he brings him along you can't blame the brother.
Phd's sometimes, depending on their subject area, cannot get jobs easily. Bad attitudes makes it harder.
Painful stuff to watch. Hard part is their ego doesn't leave them.
As for mocking his job - at least he is doing something. Maybe that's what makes him happy, happier than working his phd in a tough job market. But I see what you're saying - what right does someone have whose life isn't together to be doling our advice
Lastly just because knight opens a thread doesn't mean everyone should go for jang. No one is focusing on the actual point he is trying to make.
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If the negativity is bothering you, don't engage the guy in conversation. If it's that disruptive, then don't invite him to your gatherings. And if it was really bothering me id stop showing up to those gatherings, if people ask id tell folks the reason.
I've had people be rude to me and I have a zero tolerance policy. Better you do your own thing with your family than get weekly misery by spending time with someone that hurts you, through their negativity or whatever
Muzna has sound advice but sounds like you've already tried being nice and befriending the guy. His brother is worried about him so he brings him along you can't blame the brother.
Phd's sometimes, depending on their subject area, cannot get jobs easily. Bad attitudes makes it harder.
Painful stuff to watch. Hard part is their ego doesn't leave them.
As for mocking his job - at least he is doing something. Maybe that's what makes him happy, happier than working his phd in a tough job market. But I see what you're saying - what right does someone have whose life isn't together to be doling our advice
Lastly just because knight opens a thread doesn't mean everyone should go for jang. No one is focusing on the actual point he is trying to make.
Thanks PG, I think I am done trying the desi thing. I have never been able to align myself with the mindset, we have many friends in the multicultural realm so maybe we stick to that, never had problems with manners and lack of empathy there. I think it is the power trip thing when people are trying to tell you how to live your life. My wife used to get lectures also about raising kids from moms that had obese children playing video games and had behavioral problems at school. This new lady doctor friend of mine is very involved in the community and was telling me the problems with lack of social skills where a lot of new converts were not completely included in the get-together and they ended up reverting. She is formed a group of socially accomplished young people that will provide support and inclusion to the converts and new comers.