Education is a big problem, but if all you wanna say or express is a descent refusal to some person, then education has nothing to do with it. If you will not refuse some one who keeps staring at you, then this will be simply an encouragement for him, in case he is not educated or has sick behavior. So make it clear that you are not interested in him cause you are looking for some one else. This will calm down the nerves of that person.
Minah_Pa, I am improving with support from all of you. Any way, you did not told me your uncle's age???? I am worried...
Wise - I only get sickening like that with people I respect, a failing I have, I snap out of it at the first sound of violins
lastknightess - if someone is staring that means they think you are beautiful enough to stare at or you have spinach in your teeth, always assume the best. If they're staring because they are struck by your beauty, think about it, you are already halfway nikkahfied, so smile :) (that was me teasing)
Umer - to me, you grow younger and more agreeable by the day, will you accept older brother now?
Even if you are married, you must have enough good looks (don't take it as Desi comment). I mean after the marriage, women must keep them more fit and cool. Your husband will definitely be the most proud person on this planet, when he finds you fit, talkative (sensible),....