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wise, sci-fi term for half human half robot :)
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Wise One,
On this page Cyborg means a person who has developed some special sort of physical and psychological behaviors towards opposite sex. And in this case, Cyborg doesn’t involve any interaction of bio-mechanical devices to facilitate some behaviors or actions, though it can be in some other cases.
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Reminder: The topic was what you do when you see someone cute/interesting at a desi party.
Comon I wanna hear stories. About others.
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PCG
We are discussing the same thing, from a specific prospective. That someone may be cute or may be a Cyborg. Any ways, it is not good to tell Cyborg stories here, so follow PCG and tell your stories.
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i learn so much on this site thnx minah n umer.
wouldnt know pcg, i am very antisocial and have not seen any one interesting thus far in life.
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Wise One
Your feelings have said what I never wanted to listen perhaps.
I am sorry.......
PCG, share your stories and I will be back when you people will have done it.
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i can live with that.
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Where are the stories?
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Minah..hehe...I don;t mind someone coming over and saying "hi" i don't like the staring bit, I'm a lil shy to go up to someone, however, on the odd occasion i would say hello.
Nikkafied..hehe...I want me a big ol church wedding :D
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Play the waiting game. Don't glance too often, though its hard not to. Cos if you do, guys have big egos and start to think you have the hots for him. In some cases (in fact, most) all his friends will end up knowing you're checking him out. Guys prefer girls that are shy and modest, yet confident when talking to you. And get someone whom you trust, an aquaintance, to keep a close eye on the other sides' moves.
Usually you need to be sneeky and get the low down and gossip about the particular individual from people who know him, especially if hes a stranger. If hes modest, then a brief look or smile won't hurt. What have you got to lose?
But ultimately you have to talk to know what the persons like. After a while get a informal introduction and talk with a few close friends around, not one-one (not yet anyway) to get a feel of what hes like. Then the balls in your court.
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At a desi dawat? I pretend that the males of the species dont exist.
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Dunno bout parties, but I work in a male environment and every jackass considers his birth right to flirt with the only female present.
I treat every person according to what they mean to me.
A who I work close with as he is a TL n I am a Senior, he's been givin me the hints for a while now, I just smile and make fun of the situation but stay in control and let him know I am not interested.
S does sweet things for me but is too scared to admit to his feelings. I pay attention to hids generosity and am friends with him as good friends can be.
C is married but that doesnt stop him from passing weird comments and testing my patience. I give him dumb blonde looks.
F is turk, he thinks n acts like a turk too. I brush him off rudely.
H n A are total idiots they dont deserve any attention from me, I make their job harder on my nights ON.
Unkil T, my desi store guy finds excuses to call me on my phone just to say hello, puts ridiculously yucky hindi songs when I visit his shop. I pretend to not notice.
One just needs to stay focussed on what is desired n not fall prety to insecurites.
If I notice someone who clicks in one look, I am not afraid to make the first move.
Men are a part of our lives, agree or not. They can do stuff we cant, they can get stuff women cant. Its necessary to keep them in our lives but its also important to let them know exactly what position they hold in our eyes.
Calling 'em all dogs and pretending that they dont exist is childish.
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kyaa baat hai LB 
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homie I was just thinking of you the other day.
Where art thou?
Thand kitni hay, how r u surviving?
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so PCG any updates? you mentioned you'd be seeing the guy at a walima the next day.....
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tonite. not last night.
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good discussion guys! PCG have a nice time and let us know what goes first thing!
Legally Brown,
your post #74 is very interesting and nicely sums up what goes on in a single young woman’s life and how she deals with our species.
Minah-pa,
“I usually smile a bit, then wait and see. If we ran and avoided or lowered eyes, we would severly limit the possibilities for marriage.”
I’ve become a fan of this line of yours, greatly put in the simplest way how it’s only natural to be attracted to the opp sex and be on a lookout for a suitbale partner when single at a certain age. :k:
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^ You like those statements more than the “I don’t look at them”, because it is due to these kinds of women that you men even get attention in the first place. 
Selfish motives.