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^ I agree! Finally WE AGREE 
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having sex on first night in arranged marriage is so messed up
And how many times have you tried that?
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having sex on first night in arranged marriage is so messed up
When your marriage is arranged... ppl who arrange it also want a baby in 9 months.
Unless you have better idea then sex to make babies..... you bet get to work....
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Monk taanu koi idea pata haiga by the looks of it 
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Yeah.
dude we had cows and horses.
Do I need to say more :D
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And how many times have you tried that?
you tell me
anyhow, strangers have sex is messed up!
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When your marriage is arranged... ppl who arrange it also want a baby in 9 months. Unless you have better idea then sex to make babies..... you bet get to work....
lame excuse!
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lame excuse!
interesting.
You think ppl should ever engage in sex?
if yeah when?
and why..
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lahori99
you didn't answer Deeba's question
^ would u divorce her or ask questions as to why she seems 'experienced' or just stay quiet and leave it..
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interesting. You think ppl should ever engage in sex? if yeah when? and why..
i never said never
at least get to know to each other
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lahori99 you didn't answer Deeba's question
i didn't know it was towards me
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^ would u divorce her or ask questions as to why she seems 'experienced' or just stay quiet and leave it..
seems experienced in what way?? and what does sex have to do with anything?? i don't understand why you bought this up
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Arranged marriage doesn't mean marrying someone you don't no and have know faith in. This system needs to change.
agree with you, once again!
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Okay whats with this inverted use of ‘no’ and ‘know’. Sorry I had to point that out 
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having sex on first night in arranged marriage is so messed up
how is that person a stranger if you are married to him?? whether you know the person or not, after nikah he's a mehram
i know times have changed, its common to get to know the partner before marrige, but thats not a hard & fast rule for a successful marriage. How many of our parents, grandparents, or ancestors knew /dated their partners before marriage??
A lot of people still go through arranged marriages & have it on their first night..........to each their own, who are we to judge what is right or wrong
Blindly following what goes on in the world 'coz thats what everyone else is doing .......well, i dont care what the trend is.............do what you think is right as a couple
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how is that person a stranger if you are married to him?? whether you know the person or not, after nikah he's a mehram
i know times have changed, its common to get to know the partner before marrige, but thats not a hard & fast rule for a successful marriage. How many of our parents, grandparents, or ancestors knew /dated their partners before marriage?? A lot of people still go through arranged marriages & have it on their first night..........to each their own, who are we to judge what is right or wrong
Blindly following what goes on in the world 'coz thats what everyone else is doing .......well, i dont care what the trend is.............do what you think is right as a couple
definately agree with you! I think many people expect that people should have the same views as them otherwise it's wrong.. Arranged marriages work just as much as love marriages if not more.. and who are we to judge how someone wants to start their life!
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^^ why has this thread changed into arranged vs. choice marriage.
the simple question the OP presented was that if the girl even hinted at the fact that she knows what her special region does and what the guy's thing does, does this mean she's a ho?
from what i've seen, back home, the expectation is that the girl should know nothing at all about anything. which sadly is the truth, as many of them don't even know the real reason for having a period in the first place!
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seems experienced in what way?? and what does sex have to do with anything?? i don't understand why you bought this up
oh lahori don't act so naive. this thread is about sex. if your wife, on the first night of consummation even hints at her own pleasure, or knows what should be done, would you call her experienced and question her life before marraige and assume that she's done it before, or would you talk to her and see what she has to say before you say she's a whore and divorce her.
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how is that person a stranger if you are married to him??
you do know that in Pakistan in some arrange marriages, couple actually never met or talk to more than once. In some cases never..
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It give me goosebumps if i think of arrange marriage and first night .. :| .. .. how come on earth we can do it at first night .. :| .. ..
how is that person a stranger if you are married to him?? whether you know the person or not, after nikah he's a mehram
i know times have changed, its common to get to know the partner before marrige, but thats not a hard & fast rule for a successful marriage. How many of our parents, grandparents, or ancestors knew /dated their partners before marriage?? A lot of people still go through arranged marriages & have it on their first night..........to each their own, who are we to judge what is right or wrong
Blindly following what goes on in the world 'coz thats what everyone else is doing .......well, i dont care what the trend is.............do what you think is right as a couple