inspired by ‘lets talk about sex’
what if a girl is active and knows her way around on the first time with her husband because we all have a certain amount of knowledge i guess? (she’s a virgin)
How do guys interpretate this action of her nowadays?(start doubting her?) and would you being a girl act in that manner on the first night (considering he might doubt you)?
Main question: do guys doubt these girls?would you?
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First of all their is no such thing as “virgin girl”.
Lastly, explosion of media/movies/internet is enough for every tom/dick/harry to learn some thing. At least how to french kiss, touching, … positions 
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Main question: do guys doubt these girls?would you?
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If the guy can't trust the girl then what is the point of marrying if there is no trust?
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Why would guyz doubt her? When guyz (most of them) know everything, guls surely can as well!
Rather I'd say that the guyz would (or rather should) welcome this "knowing her way around" thingy!!
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***Ok first thing .....there isn't anyone nowadays who doesn't have the know how ....anyone who claims not to know is clearly fibbing.
As far as being the one to take the initiative depends entirely on the level of comfort and intimacy that the two share and the question of doubt shouldn't arise in that situation as least if both are mature and educated enough not to be archaic in their thinking !***
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This man, once again, speaks the truth.
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If the guy can't trust the girl then what is the point of marrying if there is no trust?
I agree 100%
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If the guy can't trust the girl then what is the point of marrying if there is no trust?
what if it's arrange marriage?
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i agree with the fact if there is no trust no point in marrying, ut thats the case in an ideal world.
Im talking reality and also arranged marriages like lahori mentioned?
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Then that shows the guy isn’t mentally ready for marriage and hence his marriage shouldn’t have been arranged or given the go ahead :halo:
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ahh . . . nice so all you have to do is to sit back , relax and enjoy the ride . Its the VIP treatment right there .
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what if it's arrange marriage?
Arranged marriage doesn't mean marrying someone you don't no and have know faith in. This system needs to change.
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what if it's arrange marriage?
How can one get into even arrange marriage without faith? Ankhoon daikhee makhee kaun nigalta hai?
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what if it is someone you dont know that well? coz that can be the case....
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what if it is someone you dont know that well? coz that can be the case....
even if you dont know someone, you enter into marriage with good faith.
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what he said :k: totally agree
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^The first bit too? Right :halo:
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there was a thread a while bac on virginity and some of the posts said that men found out on the first night that the girl was not a virgin... im pretty damn sure she didnt tell her husband...
these posts are so naive talking abt people allways having faith., never mind... i guess no one wants to answer honostly..
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Depends on person to person. You might find number of old fashioned guys who still expect bleeding first time .. .. if not, then they simple start doubting on it .. .. and you might find guys who are sensible and mature enough to understand the awareness of knowledge on this issue spread by media.
Bottom line is .. .. the baseline is Trust and it does not have to be only at sex .. throughout the relation. if a they can't do it then they should not sleep and live with each other!