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Beshak special hogi. Ammi jaan ke saath beth kar baaloN may tail lagwaana aur sari raat gup maarna is special indeed. :p
Sincerely,
Captain Lota
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What is it with “jump in the bed”? 
abay logo… aram say aram say.. sabar ka paal meeta hota hay…
take a deep breath then read ur kalima and then say salam…
per offer a ring to wify… then ask her to change cause tat dress would be killing her.. then u go and change until then girl will wait for u to come.. then when u come take her in ur arm and then talk (wateva promises, claim, fights) anything u wanna talk about.. bato bato main neend ajayay gee.. aur if u guys were really in to it.. then u may proceed 
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yeah right…wohi ho ga bar bar wohii ho ga… 
i would love to sleep and definitely won’t like to be “disturbed” till 11:00am next morning
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Hold her hand, shut your mouth
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right on spot.
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Get a room at a hotel away from everyone else if you can - it really helps lessen the 'embarrassment' factor. If you're going away on a honeymoon, don't take the whole clan with you - this is a time for the two of you to get to know one another - you can take your parents to the bahamas another time.
Be gentle with her, help her with her jewelry and dress if it's not off already - she didn't get into it by herself, and she probably needs some help getting out of it. Offer her something to eat and drink, if she's like most brides she's been too nervous to eat all day, and may feel a bit weak. Definately pray together- that's the best way to start a marriage. Then talk, give her a little kiss, and see where she wants to take it from there.
BTW - what goes on in the bedroom stays in the bedroom, my hubby had a friend who ended up divorced later because he told his mom that the marriage wasn't consumated on the first night and then his parents and sisters spent the next day shouting at the new biwi - it just ruined it for both of them,
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:)
Fantasies, far from reality. Real world is different. What is a first night ?
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now thats experience talking. call me old fashioned... what is wrong with getting it on the first night....unless the girl isnt able to?
Be gentle with her, help her with her jewelry and dress if it's not off already - she didn't get into it by herself, and she probably needs some help getting out of it. Offer her something to eat and drink, if she's like most brides she's been too nervous to eat all day, and may feel a bit weak. Definately pray together- that's the best way to start a marriage. Then talk, give her a little kiss, and see where she wants to take it from there.
BTW - what goes on in the bedroom stays in the bedroom, my hubby had a friend who ended up divorced later because he told his mom that the marriage wasn't consumated on the first night and then his parents and sisters spent the next day shouting at the new biwi - it just ruined it for both of them,
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1st night is same like every night…the only diff is u have to share ur bed with someone:crying: 
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Nothing is wrong with getting it on the first night, but learn to respect people. Not everyone WILL want to get it on the first night, and one should be accomodating for AT LEAST their spouse if for no one else in the world. There is some limit to selfishness.
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...many of you have alot to learn of Life.
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*U dont even know the gal/guy in most cases on the first night, (offcourse i m talking about arrange marriages here) how the hell are u gonna hold his/her hand on the first night and mutter the love crap and go off a roller coast ride. * 
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Yea thats so retarded! why would u tell someone u love em when u have just met? DONT SAY SUTFF U DONT MEAN 
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Sharing bed? In more than 50% homes in Pakistan, a child shares his/her bed with his mother … grows up & shares with his/her siblings (brother with brothers, sister with sisters) … gets married & then share with his/her spous.
Nothing new in sharing.
Couple should eat some Anadin / paracetamole & try to sleep after a hefty wedding.
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Paki wedding, Astaghfirullah, I get tired attending one what would couple be feeling after spending a day where groom feels fool like an owl & dont know how a girl feels like but must be worst than a boy.
Then how can u expect the couple to be up & talking .. be in business .. after a tiring wedding ?
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You people have too much time contemplating this stuff. Who cares - do it, dont do it, go half way, talk sleep, cuddle - who the fuk cares??? I would read the 2 naflz of namaz together though.
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^ u'm shell shcoked.
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You dont say! 
Now thats a story.
cat-woman: I am not concerned about myself but for the partner to be. As you might have witnessed that girls are predictably unpredictable so you have to cater for them.
Najim: agreed about paki weddings. They are too much hassle for a happy-go-lucky person.
Solar Oceans: Its okay. You didnt disappoint me 
musicmaniac: You raise a good point. You just cant throw empty words just for the heck of it. Although I think that if its a love marriage then things can be a lot better understanding wise.
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I am telling you shes gonna think u r gay
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Gloves come off and out comes the past experiences Chandler ;)