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First wedding night. What do married people would suggest on how to proceed? Romantic dialogues? promises? tall claims? Maybe she would freak out if there is action straight away and expecting some understanding to be made? No I am not looking for your intimate secrets but few tricks of the trade might help in future because impression that night is going to be a long lasting one if not the permanent one.
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The first thing you do is
jump in bed. . .
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she usually wears red clothes no? so make like a bull n go for the red.
but seriously u will b tired on the first night ,aaram karo,get comfy in bed.sari zindagi pari hay,wohi hogi ,koi aur nahin.BAAR BAAR.bus wohi.
some people i know wud prolly say ''hey'' lets bring a pc and ill tell u wat gupshup is all abt'',isi main time nikal jayega and gs will have a new member.[no pun intended].
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just be comfortable,tell her that you'll try to amke thing s work n all don't make any tall claims etc, n just pray that you'll live happily ever after.
n then jump in the bed.
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You really expect such questions to be answered here, come the night, use your initiative and you'll know what to do.
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MashAllah, entreprenurial skills.
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Get some Samosay...and chai.... while having that...play LUDO!.....literally!...
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“impression that night is going to be a long lasting one” 
ok u can make a lasting impression by
b) present her with a classy diamond necklace after u lift the ghoonghat. 
c) giving her a full body massage, asking her if she’s ready for some action, or if she’s too sleepy, telling her you will be joru ka ghulaam all your life.
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not married here but i can tell ya how i wana spend ma first night
First going off for bungee jumpin
then going on an airballoon
and then a romantic candel light dinner near the ocean would be a perfect first wedding night :)
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Set aside time for prayer and read nafils together. The moment is perfect to remember Allah as a couple.
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First going off for bungee jumpin then going on an airballoon and then a romantic candel light dinner near the ocean would be a perfect first wedding night :)
romantic candle light dinner tou samajh aata hai.
cant u do the bungee jumpin and airballoon some other day preferable not both at the same time?
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make sure no mic and hidden camera around :s
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coffee and pie, oh my 
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na i wana begin a new life with that kinda excitement and adventure :)
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:Salute:
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Baaas yeh thread itnaa saa hee thaaa,
ppl plz coem up , don t be hesistant ,
I know we do have alot experienced married people here ,
I am not married , If i be i would love to participate ...
hmm
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Not married but I thought about spending my night by creating a fuss over something and arguing…(gonna make him sleep on a couch) 
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Give her space and time, especially if it is an arranged marriage. Talk to each other, about the wedding, about each other, etc. Tell her how you feel about her (positive stuff) and give her a chance to respond in kind. There is no obligation to do anything physical. Wedding night can be romantic and special even without that. I like the idea of a candle lit dinner/snacks.
Oh, and I'm not married ... just giving some ideas.
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^-- Mehnaz,
Practically its really hard to control, I agree with all u said, but you can't avoid that night the physical involment!