First hungout together

Lifestyle Relationships
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:o

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How old are you?

This is cute.

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*I said yeah (we're 17) *
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hmmm. larkay baicharay to in the end maan hi jatay hein jitnay marzi religious ho. So she should not be paranoid about any thing :P

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:omg:

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Hey!

I'm 18 so I can relate to how you might be feeling. I know it sucks to see all of your other friends go out on dates or be in relationships. It seems like so much fun and you wonder why you have to wait to experience what they are experiencing. But seriously most of these people break up in a matter of months and all they got from the relationship was temporary fun. To me it just doesn't seem worth it. Also, don't do anything you would regret later on. Whenever I'm tempted to flirt with a guy I always think about the consequences like someone said earlier. It might seem fun to flirt with this guy in the moment but trust me later on your going to regret it especially when you see your parents. Don't do anything that would break your parent's trust. Do they know you're planning on going out with this guy? You said that you and this guy are friends so you don't want to do anything that would jeopardize your friendship with him. I know these are cliche words to leave you with but they hold true even today: once you lose your respect you can never get it back.

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Well she's an adult and is accepting that she is not a religious Muslim so why should i shove my beliefs on to her?! Ever heard about live and let live? I guess not.

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Yep give her a six pack of condoms too. Either you are a Muslim or you are not , there is no non religious Muslim. She is 17 not an adult yet.
Even if she is an adult , she does not need to go out on a date alone with a na mahram boy. She can explore the possibility of marriage within the confine of Islam.
Going out for a movie with a boy with the intention of flirting and seducing is not encouraged in any religion , culture and society.
Even in Western societies , no one will encourage a 17 year old girl to go out with a boy to flirt and seduce him. :@:
Being liberal Muslim and being a Muslim with no values are two different things.

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Why are you even bringing in the discussion about her doing this for marriage or not?! Thats besides the point. Whether she wants to date or not date, do it for marriage or not is not my concern. She's 17 and most people by this age have a normal working brain which figures out on its own what is acceptable and what is not. She is not asking here if she should go for it, if she was i would have had a different reply.

BTW, the bold part of your post is a BIG FAT LIE. Lets not go into that now or we wl totally ruin her topic.

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Who you calling big fat liar ? I may be liar , but I not big and not fat. :mad3:

P.S : This post is lame , I thought I was having discussion with some very intelligent person , but now I am disappointed.

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Ofcourse if i am not agreeing with you, i gotta be lame :slight_smile: Rite! Kool. Have fun :slight_smile:

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if you wont give the same advice to your daughter then i say you are a hypocrite ... live and let live man lolz

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Hah. She's NOT my daughter! My daughter is my responsibility not her. I wish you guys were sane enough to understand the difference. With my daughter i have the liberty/right/responsibility to give her my views and correct her behavior whereever need be but its not same with a stranger who is not even asking for my opinion.

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this is what is hypocrisy

you think good for your daughter but not for someone else's daughter

seriously good luck in life

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I like emotional people but not when they get stupid :).

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lol.
since when does holding hands get a girl pregnant!
or want to have sex or have sex.
Thats just the stupidest thing I've ever heard.

I don't think this is a date just because a girl and a boy are friends and are going to the movies. They won't be doing anything promiscuous. I don't believe Cars 2 is the right movie to go watch on a date so I say its not a date and don't go all weird!

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Why don't you go out for coffee instead? Couples go to movie theaters to make out, it's like a rule

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Umm, I believe you have no right to say whether I have values or not... I won't poke an argument though :P
Can we leave religion to a side? I mean I know what is haram and halal...i know datings wrong... or even going out to see a movie with this dude... but i thought about it, and i don't see anything to regret in this.. It's a 'hangout' and we're just going to chill, nothing crazy...I mean we're going to be watching Cars 2 lol. It's just a hangout thing... but we've been on and off liking each other for the past 3 yrs... and he's even asked me to marry him and what not... but then after that we went down hill with our friendship...i found out some stuff about him, that wasn't acceptable to me and all that drama. Now we're on talking terms again, he asked me I said yes. I do still like him a little (he's changed a lot in the past year) and I want him to like me like before....[we've never touched each other or anything like that].

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You can do whatever you like , you can believe in whatever you want. I gave my two cents since you mentioned , flirtation , seduction and Muslim in same post. If you did not mention religion in your first post , I would not even care to participate.