There is a guy at work, quite senior in the company. We have been flirting for a few weeks via text n emails. A week ago he was flirting out right in person and left no room for doubt he likes me. But all of a sudden he has disappeared on me.. Doesn’t answer my emails or messages. What is it with the mused messages. I know he is still around as he communicates with other staff members. Is he just playing with me? Guys especially please help.. Why is he doing this.
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He doesn't like you. Move on
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^ That. Less time spent thinking about it the better.
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when you say fliriting, i will consider it naughty/suggestive text messages. why did you put in that place that a person approached you in such a way.
to be honest with you, you were messing your life and now Allah is giving you another chance to follow right path.
I am not saying that flirting is haram, it is ok to go naughty with your husaband. period.
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I don't understand y flirt with me if u don't like me? And there r only few women in our company.. I haven't seen him behave tht way with any of them.
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I don't understand y flirt with me if u don't like me? And there r only few women in our company.. I haven't seen him behave tht way with any of them.
That's why the term ''douche bag'' was invented
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I don't understand y flirt with me if u don't like me? And there r only few women in our company.. I haven't seen him behave tht way with any of them.
question is that why you are so upset now. it is possible that he has met another gal and now busy with her. you never know how guys are in this matter.
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I don't understand y flirt with me if u don't like me? And there r only few women in our company.. I haven't seen him behave tht way with any of them.
maybe there was something about you or that you said that turned him off.
that or he's just being a d-bag. move on.
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He probably is a douche bag but unfortunately i work for him and he won't respond to work related issues. I don't knw what to do anymore.
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He probably is a douche bag but unfortunately i work for him and he won't respond to work related issues. I don't knw what to do anymore.
are you in pakistan?
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are you in pakistan?
No
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are you in pakistan?
Y do u ask whether I'm in Pakistan?
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Y do u ask whether I'm in Pakistan?
if you are in US, you can file harassment case against him in HR. but if you are in pakistan, i dont know how do they deal these cases.
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He probably is a douche bag but unfortunately i work for him and he won't respond to work related issues. I don't knw what to do anymore.
Oh. then you're in kind of a pickle.
Is he the only person you have to speak to in regards to work? do u have anyone else that you can speak to about work related issues?
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Just ignore him and only talk to him at a very professional level for work related matters.. even if he starts talking to you again...you don't want to make the situation even more awkward that you have to start looking for other work...
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if he is your supervisor, i will suggest you to communicate with him through office email account and dont forget cc eamils to his supervisor too.
it will help you keep him in pressure, just in case if he misrepresent you that you did not perform job related task. you know, what i mean.
Re: First he flirts and now all of a sudden ignores me.
if he is your supervisor, i will suggest you to communicate with him through office email account and dont forget cc eamils to his supervisor too.
it will help you keep him in pressure, just in case if he misrepresent you that you did not perform job related task. you know, what i mean.
It's his company. I really have gt myself in a pickle.
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Just be your normal self. Have fun and do your work. ONLY email him once re: a work matter, if he doesnt respond, dont do the work. If he asks you later, tell him you had emailed him about it but got no response. Look for another job in the meantime. He is not worth your time.
Clear the air. Ur job is more important 
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So when he was flirting he was d-bag or when he is not flirting he is d-bag?