Femininity

[Jolie]

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Its hilarious and sad at the same time to see desi definition of femininity starting and ending at haye Allah this and haye Allah that mannerism. LMAO.

[hareem01]

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@Jolie

Its hilarious and sad at the same time to see desi definition of femininity starting and ending haye Allah this and haye Allah that mannerism. LMAO.

[Decent_6Chora]

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@Jolie

Its hilarious and sad at the same time to see desi definition of femininity starting and ending haye Allah this and haye Allah that mannerism. LMAO.

there are **other ** desi definitions of femininity too but those are just too exclusive to post on this family forum

[Jolie]

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@Decent_6Chora

there are **other ** desi definitions of femininity too but those are just too exclusive to post on this family forum

Either this way or high way definitions eh?

[Decent_6Chora]

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@Jolie

Either this way or high way definitions eh?

no pretty standard definitions accepted in one-form or another in pretty much any society be it Desi or Goree.

[Jolie]

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@Decent_6Chora

no pretty standard definitions accepted in one-form or another in pretty much any society be it Desi or Goree.

Not necessarily. As an ex student of literature and art and currently interested fashion and media, I can say that there are indeed standard definitions of femininity, its not rocket science or something so indefinable. Ofcourse speaking from Western society’s point of view.

[hareem01]

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To me, femininity is all about aesthetics, and interestingly, one of the meanings of aesthetics is sensitivity.

[NomiCA]

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@hareem01

To me, femininity is all about aesthetics, and interestingly, one of the meanings of aesthetics is sensitivity.

more sensitive means more feminine??

[hareem01]

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@NomiCA

more sensitive means more feminine??

Well, it means to have the ability to feel the beauty in art and nature and taste, and more sensitivite to pains and pleasures.

[NomiCA]

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yeah…thats a nice definition…‘aurat hasaas hoti hai’
overly ‘sensitive’ guy is called a zanaana

[hareem01]

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^or putting it this way, aurat is supposed to be hassas and khushzauq.

Now hassas doesn’t mean weak or wet sock.

[NomiCA]

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@hareem01

^or putting it this way, aurat is supposed to be hassas and khushzauq.

khushzauq can’t be restricted to gender…anyone could have a nice ‘zauq’…

[hareem01]

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@NomiCA

yeah…thats a nice definition…‘aurat hasaas hoti hai’
overly ‘sensitive’ guy is called a zanaana

That is just a bad and ignorant desi way of putting the women down. The jahil Arabs didn’t like the loving and caring traits in the Prophet Muhammad(SAW) because they thought it’s womanly. Men should accept that it’s okay to have some feminine traits in them.

[hareem01]

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@NomiCA

khushzauq can’t be restricted to gender…anyone could have a nice ‘zauq’…

so why call them zannana then?

[NomiCA]

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@hareem01

That is just a bad and ignorant desi way of putting the women down. The jahil Arabs didn’t like the loving and caring traits in the Prophet Muhammad(SAW) because they thought it’s womanly.

@hareem01

so why call them zannana then?

the key word was ‘overly’…sensitivity is more of a trait women are supposed to have as per society…

[Decent_6Chora]

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@Jolie

Not necessarily. As an ex student of literature and art and currently interested fashion and media, I can say that there are indeed standard definitions of femininity, its not rocket science or something so indefinable. Ofcourse speaking from Western society’s point of view.

femininity: the trait of behaving in ways considered typical for women.

so, what is “typical” women behavior?

[Jolie]

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@hareem01

That is just a bad and ignorant desi way of putting the women down. The jahil Arabs didn’t like the loving and caring traits in the Prophet Muhammad(SAW) because they thought it’s womanly. Men should accept that it’s okay to have some feminine traits in them.

I don’t think its about being loving or caring, being sensitive in a way that you are obviously and seriously afraid of hardship, and men are naturally designed to endure physical and mental hardship better than women.

[Decent_6Chora]

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@Decent_6Chora

“Hayee Allah, I cant do this” or “Hayee allah, itna bhari hai, I cant pick it up” or “zara store tak chal loo mairey saath, andhera ho raha hai” sort of zehni kafiyat.

@Jolie

Its hilarious and sad at the same time to see desi definition of femininity starting and ending at haye Allah this and haye Allah that mannerism. LMAO.

@Jolie

I don’t its about being loving or caring, being sensitive in a way that you are obviously and seriously afraid of hardship, and men are naturally designed to endure physical and mental hardship better than women.

You are contradicting yourself here

“hayee allah” is just a slag/standard term used for being “Afraid of hardship” .. ..

[hareem01]

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@Jolie

I don’t its about being loving or caring, being sensitive in a way that you are afraid of hardship, and men are naturally design to endure physical and mental hardship better than women.

You’re right but I was talking about Arabs of jahiliya who never kissed their children and when they saw the Prophet(SAW) kissing his grandsons it was shocking to them and they called him womanly.

Also, women are or supposed to be more motherly and caring than men but also women are able to bear more physical pain than men.

[Jolie]

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@Decent_6Chora

You are contradicting yourself here

“hayee allah” is just a slag/standard term used for being “Afraid of hardship” .. ..

Good to know. I thought its related to being extremely dumb (blond).