Femininity

[T1000]

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@hareem01

haha…it’s just about the time i guess. Good luck though.

I, on the other hand need to learn the art of femininity, it’d make me a better person and a better mom I suppose.

avatar is a drawing of a skinny model called Erin O’Connor.

femininty has nothing to do to be a better person or better mom ..

I dun care what model is she .. all i care is “pencil sketch” .. .. once we had our sketched drawn at 11 PM at anarkali (Hafiz Milk Shake Corner) by some NCA guy. he drew them so nicely .. I lost it ..

[Reha]

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Femininity comes from within…it isnt really definable.

[maroush]

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Femininity is a state of mind.

[Jolie]

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@Reha

Femininity comes from within…it isnt really definable.

Exactly. Although I wouldn’t really call it indefinable.

[TLK]

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Femininity as portrayed by our literature and dramas and movies is nothing but a liability on guys. Who needs a wife who is more careful about her hairdo and saree ka palloo than opening the car’s door by herself. To me femininity is a good balance of verbal and body language plus emotional and physical strength to go through life as it comes her way. Sophistication with a kick ass attitude is sexier than ‘oof allah meri kalaa’ee lachak ga’yee munnay ko uthaanay ke baad’.

[NomiCA]

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@maroush

Femininity is a state of mind.

exactly…in urdu its called ‘zehni kafeeyat’…any creature could be acting feminine at a given time..

[T1000]

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@TLK

Femininity as portrayed by our literature and dramas and movies is nothing but a liability on guys. Who needs a wife who is more careful about her hairdo and saree ka palloo than opening the car’s door by herself. To me femininity is a good balance of verbal and body language plus emotional and physical strength to go through life as it comes her way. Sophistication with a kick ass attitude is sexier than ‘oof allah meri kalaa’ee lachak ga’yee munnay ko uthaanay ke baad’.

wah wah

[Jolie]

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I’m glad I think of European Literature and old school culture when talking about femininity, not necessarily the commercial ‘chechor-puna’ junk you read in Urdu novels or dramas. This whole pallu urana, gobi ka phool in your hair, ooh aah haye uff Allah attitude is mockery of femininity.

[blueangel]

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Like when tomboys are scolded by their mothers by saying ‘behave like a girl’… so the femininity would mean to describe all those feminine qualities as per culture.

[hareem01]

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hmmm…very interesting and some very funny replies.

Jolie you stole my words, this is exactly what I was thinking.

T1000
I think if femininity is something related to being polite (as some suggested) then it’d help me. And get yourself a new sketch, in UK we have these artists living on houseboats and they draw very nice portrait for a little amount of money, I’m sure you can find something like that in US.

[T1000]

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will see if i can find something around toronto and if i get time to go there ..

[bebo]

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@Jolie

I’m glad I think of European Literature and old school culture when talking about femininity, not necessarily the commercial ‘chechor-puna’ junk you read in Urdu novels or dramas. This whole pallu urana, gobi ka phool in your hair, ooh aah haye uff Allah attitude is mockery of femininity.

You clearly are not familiar with quality urdu literature to make a statement like this.

Becasue Femininty is a social/cultural concept, every culture has its own parameters of defining it.

[theway]

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@T1000

I like a girl with attitude and nakhra’s ..

me too.

[theway]

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Any woman who wishes to smash into the world of men isn’t very feminine.
Ida Lupino

I think a woman gets more if she acts feminine.
Nancy Reagan

My favorite part of my appearance is my height. I’m five foot one and I feel feminine being small.
Alanna Ubach

Mysteries are feminine; they like to veil themselves but still want to be seen and divined.
Karl Wilhelm Friedrich Schlege

[hareem01]

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@bebo

You clearly are not familiar with quality urdu literature to make a statement like this.

Becasue Femininty is a social/cultural concept, every culture has its own parameters of defining it.

gobhi ka phool? kasam se?

[Jaanwar]

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Femininity is Liv Tyler <3

[Decent_6Chora]

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Femininity eik kafiyat (state) ka naam hai and I have seen many guys in that state too

[hareem01]

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^Kya matlab? kis kisam ki zahni kayfiyat?

[Decent_6Chora]

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@hareem01

^Kya matlab? kis kisam ki zahni kayfiyat?

“Hayee Allah, I cant do this” or “Hayee allah, itna bhari hai, I cant pick it up” or “zara store tak chal loo mairey saath, andhera ho raha hai” sort of zehni kafiyat.

[NomiCA]

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@hareem01

^Kya matlab? kis kisam ki zahni kayfiyat?

zanaana pun