Re: Feeling Tense and disturb today!
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This is a very confusing situation
D.A, obviusly I and we wnat best for you dear, and it would make us more than happy if things truly have changed round.
But, im sorry i must emphazize most of what R.V has said. I was goona post around the same notes earlier, but she got there before me.
It could veyr mcuh be possible thier new sweet attitudes could just be fake and short-lived.
It could be possible they realised that there is no marriage yet and you are resiting being controlled, and they dont want to loose the marriage.
After marriage the controlling nature might be thier real one which could manifest and dominate.
And most important of all. Your Fiances emails. ... They are still to way shallow and serious to be ignored.
You Should Still tell your parents what has been going on lately.
You will be doing injustice agsints and punshing your parents if this behaviour re-emregs after marriage, and you knew of it.
Lastly, yes its nice but dont get overwhlemed by bouts of sweetness.
Just because of some swetness-sugar you cant ignore the biiterness and hurt which has been prevailing more.
You parents shud know what has hapned, and they should atleast demand an explantion from the in-laws of this gatiyah behaviour before taking anything further.
I strongly recommend this.
And te email he sent you., Boy i have ben angry...seriusly angry with people before.
But such a deep, hateful email, and especially the words he used...i would only write to my girl, if she did somthing like after promsing to marry me, on valentines ran of with someone else.
Only then does something of the content he wrote makes rational sense.
nd..dont underestimate my experience.
:)
At the end of the day, we’re all advising DA based on how we feel with what she’s told us and each one of us in this thread wants her to make the right decision for herself. Plus, it’s good you raised some points because by arguing against them, we’ve been able to show DA every persepctive there is and have reached one outcome: the guy is good for nothing (to put things in a polite way).
