Re: Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?
zobia first take that kid to a pyschiatrist i feel sorry for him
zobia first take that kid to a pyschiatrist i feel sorry for him
Why should i go to a psychiatrist?
[QUOTE*=Njdude*;6562504]
Aray app to khafa ho gaieen, i just had a question abt ur logic behind shareef gals not getting horny
NO.............I'm not khafa at all. LOL. I realized that my statement was not meant in a clear way. And I was just clarifying what I meant because you had brought up a good point. Don't worry, I'm not offended :)
[QUOTE*=Njdude*;6562504] Aray app to khafa ho gaieen, i just had a question abt ur logic behind shareef gals not getting horny
NO.............I'm not khafa at all. LOL. I realized that my statement was not meant in a clear way. And I was just clarifying what I meant because you had brought up a good point. Don't worry, I'm not offended :)
Trust me man every one gets horny and its becasue of that people do stupid stuff like give it names such as "Love" and "marriage" in truth we're all fulfilling our horny desires! Humans are such drama queens! :(
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[quote="Njdude, post:18, topic:201620"]
hmm so shareef gals dont get horny ? I finally have a question abt ur logic ;)
Hi Njdude :)
Shareef girls are also endowed with same natural horny feelings that the more liberal girls have. The issue is not about having sexual desires. Animals have innate desires as well that they recklessly fulfill anywhere and at anytime. But human beings are endowed with a conscience, a moral compass, intelligence, and on top of all this, they have been given guidance from Allah on the most appropriate way to conduct these natural/sexual desires.
Sex is a huge emotional responsibility not only for women but for also for men. And such a step can't be taken without the consideration of the other person's feelings. I've talked to girls who have had sex before marriage.......and while they were happy about the decision in the beginning........they deeply regretted it later on and wished they had waited. I've even read stories of more liberal girls who.....years later.....wished they had waited.
A girl who respects herself will want a guy to LIKE her for who she is as a person. A girl who respects herself will want a guy who likes her for more than just her body. A girl who respects herself will not try to prove her self-worth by reducing herself to a piece of meat. As I said earlier shareef girls have the same natural desires. The point here is self-respect.
This girl mentioned that she was taking medication for depression. Perhaps she feels that sleeping around with guys will prove her worth and DESIRABILITY *as a female. She might be thinking this will prove that she is *"lovable". Some girls who are suffering from SEVERE low self-esteem will resort to such behavior. But she needs to understand that reckless sex and love/acceptance are not the same thing. This girl needs positive people in her life who can guide and build her confidence in the healthy way..........not multiple sex partners to prove her worth as a female.
please don<t excuse this girls behaviour faulting low self-respect. she is just a behaya and begairith girl. lots of behaya and besharam boys and girls who do these things before marriage have a little too much esteem looks like which can be inferred by their cockiness.
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please don<t excuse this girls behaviour faulting low self-respect. she is just a behaya and begairith girl. lots of behaya and besharam boys and girls who do these things before marriage have a little too much esteem looks like which can be inferred by their cockiness.
It's hard to judge people because we don't know what is in their hearts. The poster, McPendo, said that she's taking medication for depression. And low self-esteem is usually a symptom of depression. This girl has placed a high emphasis on material things. People who deep down are insecure.....rely HEAVILY on material things to provide them happiness.
It's possible that she's behaya and begairith...........but there is much we don't know about her background.....to determine why she is acting the way that she is.
For example, it is said that girls who have been sexually abused either become withdrawn and afraid of intimacy...........or they can potentially become sexually promiscuous as a result of low self-esteem that resulted from the abuse......so they don't value themselves enough and seek validation in the wrong ways.
I'm not saying that this girl was sexually abused nor am I trying to defend her reckless behavior . I've just used the scenario as an example. Truth is that it's hard to tell what's going on in her head.
Re: Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?
Mcpendu,
first sort out which girl you want.
** U have a chaker with a Pakistani Girl in another thread dont you?**
Dont copy what akshay kumar does in Garam Masala. Its not sustaineble.
Nice Information, Tnx for this .
You're welcome.
Re: Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?
What the hell? So you actually don't even know that girl in REAL LIFE and you're talking about love and such? She's only messing with you dude. LOL Prolly because she has too much time on her hands...
Mcpendu,
first sort out which girl you want.
** U have a chaker with a Pakistani Girl in another thread dont you?**
Dont copy what akshay kumar does in Garam Masala. Its not sustaineble.
I gota Chaker with another girl? Wtf where are you coming from man? o_0
Re: Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?
Who is the other Mcsomthing dude who has girl issue like you and talks like you complains like you acts like you in his thread.
Is he your twin bro.
Re: Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?
lol ^
Who is the other Mcsomthing dude who has girl issue like you and talks like you complains like you acts like you in his thread.
Is he your twin bro.
How the **** am i suppose to know who Mscomthng is. Alot of people have girl problems man thats why i came to this forum. Freakin' typical Pendo mindset dude way to go buddy.