Re: Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?
due maybe ur girl was mentiong abut sx to check ur intentions out as opposed to herself wanting it.
bro, you dunno girls. they can be very crafty
Dude, I've already answered that. Guys aren't the only ones with egos you know? Girls have an ego and pride as well.
When you found out that she hadn't added you onto facebook for a year.........it hurt your ego didn't it?
Similarly........it must have hurt her ego when you shrugged off her romantic confessions. She felt hurt and didn't feel comfortable adding you to facebook.
When we are rejected by someone we care about.........often times we feel the need to "distance" ourselves from that person to protect our feelings....and to move on. Staying close to someone who has rejected you while you still harbor romantic sentiments can be painful. So, some people prefer to maintain a distance.
OR...........the other possibility could be that her behavior on facebook is not what you would approve of.........and she doesn't want you to know about this........so she decided not to add you.
Yeah but still i wanted to see her and i asked her ok add me to your facebook and she goes no gimme some time and i asked her if i am such a good friend of yours whats the problem then? I means she adding all crap guys and telling me about them and not me! wtf is wrong with me? I dont even care about Facebook its her mentality that if she thinks i am her best friend shouldn't i be at least on her Facebook?
Re: Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?
dude stop acting like vomen.
make her jealous too show her u can get other vomen too
dude stop acting like vomen.
make her jealous too show her u can get other vomen too
Vomen? ok dude i'll try to get some Vomen!
Re: Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?
taking the piss eh
i need to act discreet for perosnl rzns
ne vay i dnt fl sorry for no mre
zeterminator shud be bak soon
Yeah but still i wanted to see her and i asked her ok add me to your facebook and she goes no gimme some time and i asked her if i am such a good friend of yours whats the problem then? I means she adding all crap guys and telling me about them and not me! wtf is wrong with me? I dont even care about Facebook its her mentality that if she thinks i am her best friend shouldn't i be at least on her Facebook?
McPendo...........at the end of the day, it's HER facebook account, not yours. She has the right add anyone she wants on her account. You have very little say in the matter. Just like she can't control your Facebook activities.
This girl, from the way you've described her, seems like a "loose" girl to me. And as I told you earlier, perhaps one of the reasons she chose not to add you is because she didn't want you to see her "frowned upon" activities on facebook. The other possible reason is simply that she was hurt by your rejection and didn't want to add you to her account.
Even if she decides to add you as a buddy to her account, you can't stop the "crappy guys" from messaging her. And you can't prevent her from talking back to them.
Also, telling her that you made a facebook account and that you have all these girls who are messaging you..........................is just going to make her realize that you're trying to make her jealous/get her attention............and that you're copying her technique.
The BEST way to act in this situation is to act like it makes no difference to you whether she added you on facebook or not. It's called INDIFFERENCE. And INDIFFERENCE..........as you will come to find out...........is much more powerful than hatred and getting even.....because it hurt more.
Creating a facebook account is like mimicing her strategy. Acting like you don't care at all.......that you have better things to do with your time than stress over why you're not on her facebook............will grab HER attention. Cuz she'll wonder why you're so relaxed about the isue.
After all the possible problems that i've told you that could result from being with this girl.....................you still want to be with her? You're still considering a romantic relationship? If that's the case, my advice is to be careful. And also to start off by being a friend who guides her......................and then if you feel she has the qualities you want in a future partner.........then make your move. For right now, tread with caution.
Re: Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?
Boy r.v so much free advice everywhere
u dont even charge...and u never tire...such a generous peron.
never fear when red.velvet is here.
TLK waise aap husshiyaar rena
McPendo...........at the end of the day, it's HER facebook account, not yours. She has the right add anyone she wants on her account. You have very little say in the matter. Just like she can't control your Facebook activities.
This girl, from the way you've described her, seems like a "loose" girl to me. And as I told you earlier, perhaps one of the reasons she chose not to add you is because she didn't want you to see her "frowned upon" activities on facebook. The other possible reason is simply that she was hurt by your rejection and didn't want to add you to her account.
Even if she decides to add you as a buddy to her account, you can't stop the "crappy guys" from messaging her. And you can't prevent her from talking back to them.
Also, telling her that you made a facebook account and that you have all these girls who are messaging you..........................is just going to make her realize that you're trying to make her jealous/get her attention............and that you're copying her technique.
The BEST way to act in this situation is to act like it makes no difference to you whether she added you on facebook or not. It's called INDIFFERENCE. And INDIFFERENCE..........as you will come to find out...........is much more powerful than hatred and getting even.....because it hurt more.
Creating a facebook account is like mimicing her strategy. Acting like you don't care at all.......that you have better things to do with your time than stress over why you're not on her facebook............will grab HER attention. Cuz she'll wonder why you're so relaxed about the isue.
After all the possible problems that i've told you that could result from being with this girl.....................you still want to be with her? You're still considering a romantic relationship? If that's the case, my advice is to be careful. And also to start off by being a friend who guides her......................and then if you feel she has the qualities you want in a future partner.........then make your move. For right now, tread with caution.
Yeah i didn't have a Facebook before i just created a temporary account just to see her pics she didn't add me i deleted the account! You know i think she might have some other activities going on over there. That girl is indeed very clueless. I dont want a relationship with her any more i did but now after all your advice i think i'd better stay away from her, she has the most crappiest personality a girl can have no disrespect towards women! Thanks.
Re: Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?
mcpendo brother get another girl
Boy r.v so much free advice everywhere
u dont even charge...and u never tire...such a generous peron.
never fear when red.velvet is here. ** TLK waise aap husshiyaar rena**
Yes, TLK be watchful of Pindi Bro's senseless ramblings.
Re: Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?
ur after his job......
red.velvet is too good.zz
You really impress me by ur logic behind these cases.
LOL, very true 
To original poster, Mcpendo:
Dude back off :), I hope u rnt in love.
You know i wasn't like this at all towards her. I didn't even care about her. I didn't love her or paid any attention. It was her who gave me all those signals started to discuss those girl magazines with on how to please your man and all that bull crap. She ignited those feels in me and when i said ok this is i can't handle it any more she goes and stamps a marriage Barrier in front of my face. How peaceful was my life back then man!!! **i didn't even use to care about any girl... now she's on my mind 24/7!! And now she's avoiding me What irony!!!! **But your right im not making stupid moves like that on her... Thanks for the advice man really appericaited!
Okay in my opnion this isnt love, u didnt pay attention to gals, finally u talk to a girl for so long and have feeling for her NOT A SURPRISE.
She used her "humdardi (pitiness) card" she made u feel bad for her and then u thought u were rude with her too; if u treated her bad u tell her u r sorry not make her ur gf or wife.
Try talkin to a different gal... there r much better gals out there am sure u will forget all abt her in couple of months.
Mcpendu,
I'm a girl too. And women can read women. This girl.........sounds trashy.........and she's trying to trap you. This methodology has been used before by women: Playing the marriage card way too soon before even meeting each other and getting to know each other.
What if you promise to marry her now..........and later you realize that you dont' like her trashy personality.................and then decide to back out of the marriage plans. She's going to go around making YOU look like the BAD GUY. She'll go around telling people that YOU proposed to her........that YOU told her you want to marry her.........and that YOU dumped her. Can you imagine how this would hurt your reputation? Is this girl even thinking about how all of this will effect you? NO, SHE"S NOT! She's only thinking of herself right now. If she was a shareef girl (and not a horny one)...............she would have made the marriage condition a LONG TIME AGO...........instead of asking for sex. Know what I mean?
hmm so shareef gals dont get horny ? I finally have a question abt ur logic ;)
Exactly. You seem like a smart guy. You said that you started to feel bad for her when she said that she is taking medication for depression and that you decided "what the heck. Let's give this relationship a try."** You can't start romantic relationships with people based on PITY and SYMPATHY. That's a HUGE TRAP. ** Tell me something. Let's say that you liked a girl.......but she was not interested. And then you tell that girl that you're on meds for depression. Would YOU like it if you knew that the MAIN reason that this girl wants to start a relationship with you is because she feels sorry for you???? How would YOU feel knowing that someone wants to be with you because of PITY?
again impressive logical approach :)
Re: Extreme Frustration regarding one girl?
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hmm so shareef gals dont get horny ? I finally have a question abt ur logic ;)
Hi Njdude :)
Shareef girls are also endowed with same natural horny feelings that the more liberal girls have. The issue is not about having sexual desires. Animals have innate desires as well that they recklessly fulfill anywhere and at anytime. But human beings are endowed with a conscience, a moral compass, intelligence, and on top of all this, they have been given guidance from Allah on the most appropriate way to conduct these natural/sexual desires.
Sex is a huge emotional responsibility not only for women but for also for men. And such a step can't be taken without the consideration of the other person's feelings. I've talked to girls who have had sex before marriage.......and while they were happy about the decision in the beginning........they deeply regretted it later on and wished they had waited. I've even read stories of more liberal girls who.....years later.....wished they had waited.
A girl who respects herself will want a guy to LIKE her for who she is as a person. A girl who respects herself will want a guy who likes her for more than just her body. A girl who respects herself will not try to prove her self-worth by reducing herself to a piece of meat. As I said earlier shareef girls have the same natural desires. The point here is self-respect.
This girl mentioned that she was taking medication for depression. Perhaps she feels that sleeping around with guys will prove her worth and DESIRABILITY *as a female. She might be thinking this will prove that she is *"lovable". Some girls who are suffering from SEVERE low self-esteem will resort to such behavior. But she needs to understand that reckless sex and love/acceptance are not the same thing. This girl needs positive people in her life who can guide and build her confidence in the healthy way..........not multiple sex partners to prove her worth as a female.
Cause i hadn't SEEN HER FOR ONE FREAKING YEAR!!! read the posts man! And why the hell wouldn't she add me to her Facebook? I am curious about that?
now i am curious too about facebook.
ps. add her with someother id and find out the secret.
due maybe ur girl was mentiong abut sx to check ur intentions out as opposed to herself wanting it.
bro, you dunno girls. they can be very crafty
jee zaroor.
and all the guys are bongay.
Yeah but still i wanted to see her and i asked her ok add me to your facebook and she goes no gimme some time and i asked her if i am such a good friend of yours whats the problem then? I means she adding all crap guys and telling me about them and not me! wtf is wrong with me? I dont even care about Facebook its her mentality that if she thinks i am her best friend shouldn't i be at least on her Facebook?
is her facebook open?
hmm so shareef gals dont get horny ? I finally have a question abt ur logic ;)
Hi Njdude :)
Shareef girls are also endowed with same natural horny feelings that the more liberal girls have. The issue is not about having sexual desires. Animals have innate desires as well that they recklessly fulfill anywhere and at anytime. But human beings are endowed with a conscience, a moral compass, intelligence, and on top of all this, they have been given guidance from Allah on the most appropriate way to conduct these natural/sexual desires.
Sex is a huge emotional responsibility not only for women but for also for men. And such a step can't be taken without the consideration of the other person's feelings. I've talked to girls who have had sex before marriage.......and while they were happy about the decision in the beginning........they deeply regretted it later on and wished they had waited. I've even read stories of more liberal girls who.....years later.....wished they had waited.
A girl who respects herself will want a guy to LIKE her for who she is as a person. A girl who respects herself will want a guy who likes her for more than just her body. A girl who respects herself will not try to prove her self-worth by reducing herself to a piece of meat. As I said earlier shareef girls have the same natural desires. The point here is self-respect.
This girl mentioned that she was taking medication for depression. Perhaps she feels that sleeping around with guys will prove her worth and DESIRABILITY *as a female. She might be thinking this will prove that she is *"lovable". Some girls who are suffering from SEVERE low self-esteem will resort to such behavior. But she needs to understand that reckless sex and love/acceptance are not the same thing. This girl needs positive people in her life who can guide and build her confidence in the healthy way..........not multiple sex partners to prove her worth as a female.
Aray app to khafa ho gaieen, i just had a question abt ur logic behind shareef gals not getting horny
I guess, we have a different definition for being horny. I have never used dictionary.com to find the actual definition of "horny" but from the experience of hearing it very often i always assumed the definition is: a time period when one desires sex.
I wud totally agree if u said that a shareef wudnt share her horny feelings with anyone but her spouse. How ever that statement i quoted was different.