Because I am not interested? That was obvious from my first post. You truly are blind.
^ There's u're answer CM.
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She'll instantly back off if you tell her "Sugar Lips! I'm mama's boy. I don't go to sleep without talking to my family for at least two hours everyday."
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^ hahaahha
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Its better to be open and decisive about these kind of things . No means NO .
Yea, friendship can stay depending on her attitude .
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You should cut all communication with her. You can't stay friends, she'll always want more...she should just move on
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That's sad. I've had to do that wig so many guys who were friends and who I liked but did not like me back. It's so painful to know that you can't even have a conversation anymore with them. I just try not to befriend guys anymore for that reason. Give this girl the dignity of closure at least.
You know, her parents are not doing anything wrong. They want the best for her and if she likes CM then they're only pursuing her happiness. Everyone here would do the same for their children and the pain of rejection is probably felt just as much by parents anyway. So just be gentle about it. Cutting off communication abruptly is painful.
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CM, just communicate your feelings with her once more before avoiding her without explanation. It's the kinder thing to do. Tell her that you understand if she wants a break from you. And then give her space. If she feels that it's best for her to avoid you in order to move on, then so be it.
On the other hand, if you do think that she might make a good partner for you, then take some time out to think about how you want to handle the situation before trying to talk to her. But no leading on....and no abrupt avoidance without warning or communication.
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I mean, he should talk to her and then tell her its probably best to not stay friends. The end result will still be to cut all communication with her.
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That's harsh. But yeah, if you remain friends with her she may have te typical bollywood hope that you will eventually fall in love with her. Damn Shah Rukh Khan. His movies make desi girls too hopeful about desi men.
Because I am not interested? That was obvious from my first post. You truly are blind.
lols
than make it obvious to your friend.....
wat kinda help u r looking for.....:p
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Not all girls hold out hope PCG. Yeah there are those that have little else in their lives except the Shah Rukh style drama and look to Bollywood to guide them but there are many others that truly value a decent guy friend with whom they can connect but not be intimate with.
I know of this one girl that carried on with a guy that was engaged to a gal in Pakistan. They were both here in Canada and this girl carried on and on ..... refusing to meet potential rishtay and when she did meet them turning them down for the stupidest reasons just to wait for this guy.
Meanwhile guy goes to Pakistan to visit family and comes back married to the girl he was engaged to.
Does the "other woman" learn? Nope. She continued to wait. Even after the newlyweds arrived back in the country and set up home she still waited. She actually expected that he would leave his wife for her. Stupid in more ways than one.
Ultimately he did not leave his wife and this girl went well into her 30's before she got married.
I wonder how she might have handled the situation if she actually had interests and hobbies in her life other than Pakistani dramas, Bollywood movies and the latest fashion trends. Maybe if she played a sport......or had a career not a job.......something.....anything.
If I have a half-decent understanding of CM's personality than he is likely not close to a girl that has little more than Bollywood in her life. She is likely to have a well-rounded personality and will probably be able to handle rejection in a mature and sophisticated manner.
CM......do let us know what your decision was and how it turned out.
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As always there is more than one way to skin a cat. My decision was to make myself an unacceptable prospect for their daughter. No talking to her (hell no), no opening pandora's box no drama. Rather simple. Hell it took only one line phrased from me, they will never speak to me again and my reputation of a being a gentleman remains in tact.
She I know will not contact me again, so I am in the clear and her parents will never ask me to come over ever again. Contact terminated. All parties are happy and best part, the girl and her family think it was their decision that I am unacceptable.