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fp....I don't know about others.......but I was around.
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u joking right?
What would be man like if he is not courteous?
"acquaintance" see what I mean.. you just proved my point. I don't see guys making those hierarchy so jsut they can have women around.
PlayStation:: I am not saying women have bad intentions.. but they have this thing.. they want to take care of and ADORE almost every one. And this emotion need to put check on.
BTW: eid mubarik.
If she likes you she won't be letting go anytime soon.. you either need to break the friendship or get married to someonelse overnight.
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No, I'm not joking.
I don't get it. Maybe I just don't understand the point you are making for if I did I might agree.
I think there is a distinct difference between acquaintance, friend and lover.
From what I understand, you believe that there is nothing but acqauintance or lover. Correct?
and yeah....Eid Mubarak. :-)
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What I am saying is we act upon on our animal instincts.
Men waiting to do sex with every thing.
Women wanting to be princes of every ones heart.
Both smart men and women can walk million miles aways from the uncomfortable territory and CAN do their life successfully and CAN have time of their lives.
How ever not so smart ppl often fail to distinct between --if is some thing required or its some thing they learn from Bellwood.
I know a million(not really millions) girls who used-to/do talk to me. They call they call. they dont they dont..
Unless some is in trouble and needing any help I wont even think about calling them.
I mean who wants a girl to be his friend?? Its always women who have some thing going on.
I honestly don’t think it’s possible to remain friends after one person in the relationship feels more than friendly. And added to that, you have to not only let her down but also her parents which creates an awkward situation.
I think you need to give her time and wait until she gets over you before carrying on with your relationship - if this friendship is important to you. Otherwise - cut your ties. Another option to help her mend her broken heart – introduce her to someone – encourage her to fall out of love with you and in love with someone else. If it works out - she'll be grateful to you and name her firstborn after you - if it doesn't she'll hate you for ruining her life ;)
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any specific reasons u wana stay kanwara?
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If she isnt even that close of a freind, you can just ignore her. I have a feeling you are leading her on....
any specific reasons u wana stay kanwara?
He does not like holding purses :)
Does the girl have genuine feelings for you? Or was the idea of a "match" planted into her head by her concerned parents? Sometimes the suggestions of others, especially parents, can put ideas in our heads that we never gave much serious thought to before. I'm assuming that since you so "BLUNTLY" told her that you're not interested, that this implies you both are able to have open communication. Straightforward communication is an integral part of a friendship, CM. If you still value the friendship, I would suggest that you, once again, talk to this girl about the issue NICELY.
"I just wanted to say thank you for inviting me over for a lovely meal. I appreciate your consideration. I'm a bit concerned because you haven't seemed your usual comfortable self lately. You seem a bit tense. And I hope that it's not about the proposition that came up earlier. I enjoy the friendship we have and I'm sorry if I've unknowingly given the impression that it was anything more than that. And I'm being honest with you because I don't want to unknowingly lead you on. It it's difficult for you to remain friends or if you need some time away from me, I understand."
She might be hurt, but she'll appreciate the honesty. Most people (men and women) think of the other person as a "coward" or "jerk" when they reject through a sudden cold shoulder that came without warning. InshaAallah she'll move one. Pray that she finds someone amazing. Even rejection, as unpleasant as the task seems, can be done with dignity or decency.
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Are you uncomfortable with the involvement of her parents and their inclination to make this friendship turn into a bond? You might as well re-consider the whole scenario, maybe you two can actually make a good match. If its beyond the uneasy feeling her parents involvement gives you, then you can honestly tell your friend, where do you place her. Talk to the point and speak the truth. It wont take long for a friend who has been around for years to figure out any lies you build up. Besides, what kind of friends are you two that you cant even share your plans about getting married.
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Be friends with the GAL and not her parents. Kapeesh.
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Be a Man , Do the Right Thing ! 
What you work at chineese variety shop? 
What you work at chineese variety shop? :D
I celllllll you dees fur fooorrttyy dolaaaaarrrrr ! ***
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Keep it coming.
He does not like holding purses :)
haha...self-experience? :D
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Just talk to her. Stress how important the friendship is to you and that you hope with all your heart she finds someone less of a kameena than you.
Not as helpful as I had hoped it would be, but c'es la vie. Appreciate your comments and my course of action is decided. Thanks.
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jst get married wid her ..... u r gona get married sooner or later so y not now and y not wid her.....
4 din say 1 maslah chal raha hai