re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
''this thread is worthless without pics"
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
Unless a girl confesses, how can guys even tell that she is not a virgin and vice versa..always confused me.
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
^It's rare she won't have it at all but it's not rare to bleed only the tiniest amount so it's not even noticeable or for the hymen to break thru sports or other 'innocent' reasons... esp here in the west..
Actually i dont know why we have quickly reached to hymen part. Even if a gal admits before she ties the knot that she has a past with guy, there will be very very few men ready to digest the truth. And even if she is accepted, as i said before, this thing will always come up during arguments. the 2nd part applies to both, men and women.
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
''this thread is worthless without pics"
What pictures?
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
Unless a girl confesses, how can guys even tell that she is not a virgin and vice versa..always confused me.
They can't really..
'She was too good', 'Not shy enough', 'Didn't bleed'.. the standard moronic responses..
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
do guys explain it to others too?? like......... ''this why i concluded she is not virgin''??
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
Clearly you missed the second part of it. Also, if we acted like we are from stone age…how do we expect others to change (specifically men who think like that)?
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
They can't really..
'She was too good', 'Not shy enough', 'Didn't bleed'.. the standard moronic responses..
Umm the same does apply with women as well. As absurd as it may sound, but you cant blame any of them in this day and age for being so observant.
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
''this thread is worthless without pics"
and what would you like to see pics of...care to elaborate?
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
Clearly you missed the second part of it. Also, if we acted like we are from stone age...how do we expect others to change (specifically men who think like that)?
^ i dont know how old are you. But you need to be in Practical world before you claim things like that. :)
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
^ i dont know how old are you. But you need to be in Practical world before you claim things like that. :)
Claim things like what? Are you telling me if a woman doesn't bleed the first time it means she is not a virgin?
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
Claim things like what? Are you telling me if a woman doesn't bleed the first time it means she is not a virgin?
No i said that you dont sound mature. and your this above post proved me right.
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
No i said that you dont sound mature. and your this above post proved me right.
FT, you don't know anything about me to claim that. If you wanted to have a "mature discussion" you would point out how my post was flawed and not say I am not mature enough.
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Can we all please skip the "Hymen" and "Blood" part?
Makes one nauseous. :(
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
Okay now dont take it on heart. I am not saying what u are saying is incorrect. But there are many other factors involved with it which prolly you have ignored. hymen presence or absence is not the only issue.
Oh to make you feel good, “You are a mature woman.” happy now ? 
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
I so second that notion. After all she is ummm, errr, uhhhh, grrr. Psst. Forget it. 
At the end of it all. You both had put valid points upfront. Lack of communication probably took its toll in the end. So yes, you’re both right with your own respected views on the matter. 
Cheers.
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
Why make an issue over a piece of tissue? :D
Seriously:
There is no need to even ask the partner of life such things when accepted otherwise.
1- If it bothers someone enough, use some reasonable means to check the previous life of the person, his/her mental aptitude and views on this issue etc. BEFORE marriage.
Once satisfied, never even worry about it.
2- Now if after marrying something is found:
Check your heart. Are you so strong in your finding or it maybe just a weak evidence.
Also how strong are your feelings about the findings.
2a- If not so strong, then forget it.
2b-If very strong feelings, then look for other ways to accept it. The person might have repented and wants to be with you completely then why worry even then?
Just make the marriage work since there is no such thing as ideal marriage.
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Who knows you maybe someone who had some issues before and your partner is compromising with you.**
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
''this thread is worthless without pics"
Jee. Aap hazoor ko tou miss hi kur diya. Kis cheez ki tasweerain dekhna pasand karaingey janab aap? :p
re: Does it matter if someone you want to marry is a virgin or not?
There are stories of a non virgin girls taking a small vile of blood and breaking it secretly suring the matrimonial night so hubby is satisfied she is a virgin.
Men too hide their past romances with fun time girls. Its not a nice thought thinking about your life partner engaged in activities with another person back in time.
Some people can bear that thought better than others, its a personal choice, if you love someone enough you can get over your life partners past history and previous relationships.