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Imagine a man with your brain and your level of understanding life.
Enough said.
p.s. Older men are 
I am definitely attracted to the older/wiser.
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Age is a very high price to pay for maturity, you know :)
Anyway for most of us lads , it doesnt matter as ya women crowd never push to 30s , ya'll be clinging on to it for dear life :@:
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You are quite gullible to think old men are all wise & calculating. It’s not the age brings the foresight in you, it’s the experience it self brings the worst and the best of you.. and experience doesn’t happen with age, it comes with your existence, growth, success/failure and loss.
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You are quite gullible to think old men are all wise & calculating. It's not the age brings the foresight in you, it's the experience it self brings the worst and the best of you.. and experience doesn't happen with age, it comes with your existence, growth, success/failure and loss.
Hmmmm, I might have taken your post seriously if you didn't get personal. But bah.
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Hmm.. so you think I'm being personal with you? Perhaps I am (if that's how you distinguish it.. since you control your own thoughts) but remember one thing, we are all different individuals with different ideas , and being different isn't a bad thing, as long as such people can teach you a thing or two and you can teach others from what you've learnt from those obscure people... passing a torch is good as long as hands are not being burnt... that being said, I'm willing to learn anything from you Straight-up.. That's why im here for!
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In a word. Yes. Yes it matters.
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No...? Not if you get along with him/her?
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In a word. Yes. Yes it matters.
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i dont know what to say.i feel if u marry a very young boy he is defeinately not mature,not stablish financilay and these thinsg does matter.
how can he will take care of yourself beinga youngoen himself.
but u hubby shouldnt b too older then u i dont wana say much about age only allah knows about age . some time old hubbies live a long life then young hubbies.
but later in age u look young and your hubby looks older then u.when ur kids become young yr hubby seemd very much older ofocurse.even big aunties said old mans having problems in child birth.i mean ofcourse there is a huge difference in young and old men energy wink wink...
age can create difrence in your and your hubby thinking ,ideas,point of views etc
and yes an older spouse can get halth issues earlier ...
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well age difference does not really matter. the thing is that both must be of same mind level either they are of less age or more age. but your choice must also be valued here/
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I dont understand why some peolpe open up nursery level threads like this:
Assuming most of guppies are av. inteligent and educated people. How hard is it to find the answer to questions like these?
Obviusly, age varies from person to person and thier requirements.
Usually people around the same age are of same mental level and maturity so it can be better. They would have more understanding.
and apprently, if financially stability is your priority. Then yeh naturally a person who is older has had more time to develop on himself. So wud be better-off.
But he is likely to have a different mental level than yours.
But none the less, it doesnt mean the younger one has not got the potential to develop and becoome more financially stable given the same time.
Everyone had to start somewhere.
Ther are trade-off at each stage of age.
It depends what you want isnt it.
But i think the max age gap of 5-7 years covers all important aspects.
You should not marry a person higher than this, because simply he is too old!
How often do you see us guys marrying girls over 7 years younger to us??
We want YOUTH.
why dont u also try to stick to marying YOUTHFUL MEN.
You girls just seem to comprimse alsmot evry aspect. How irrational.
And to prove this look at Suhainas other thread, where her brother misses all the neccsary traits in a husband: he drinks, has white g.f.s, he eats haram, AND STILL has a highly decent and young paki girl dieing to marry him?
Ladies who seem to marry older man and be happy is because they 'have had to', as girls hardly have much choice in Pakistan over who they marry.
And have had to comprimise in order to remain happy.
God you all make me so jealous...
you dont want guys who are goodlooking, you dont want guys who are young,
WHYY!
I have feeling the thread starter is a multi-nick of an otherwise v.popular guppan, who seems to have a stereo-type issue with the males of the western or younger or good-looking generation.
Not all young, western, goodlooking guys are assh...les you know thread starter!
The same way not all paki born, older and ugly men are gentlemen!
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Amir, most men do want women much younger than themselves and the older they get, the younger they want their woman to be. When men remarry for example, whether it is because of becoming a widower or just wanting a second wife, they marry much younger women.
And age is not a factor for women so much as it is for men. I dont know why you are having a problem finding rishthay if you are only 25 years old and have a good steady job. Perhaps there are other reasons for the problem. Do you think you know know why women may not be interested in you?
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Oh man stop belittleing me.
Its just that if all you girls start opening thread about encouraging to marry older and uglyier men..Then where does it leave younger ones?
IM just jealous cos im not selfish and greedy liek these other men when it comes to someone elses life.
Thes men know they are not able for but still go for and maniuplate better girls than themself into marrying them.
Its not that i am not good or unable with girls. Its just that my principles dont let me do what these guys do. Its injustice, ladies r soft things, you shouldnt exploit thier emotions.
And by the way i dont have any health or social problem, im am alhumdulliah good in academic and sharafat level.
My only problem is the above of ethics.
If i see a girl is more beautiful or significantly better than me in some way, I just dont go for her even though i might want her very much.
And u know what im not FAKE. I could act all charming and sweet like other do at the start, to make you think im such a charmer/lwel-mannered but i dont.
Because i cant lie to people, as other men, only to show the reality when its to late, i.e the above men...
Im sorry if my post come across a bit harsh somtimes...i am just trying to be upfront not rude
infact i am held in rather high-esteem by those who know me.
But nevertheless im am upfront. I hope u appreciate that in comparison to being a 'fake' .
I dunno,--maybe mi psycology needs fixing...
maybe more better looking or able girls wud stil like to go for less good, but shareef, nice, caring guys like me?
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lol
for your kind information mashallah i have a husband who is just 2 months elder then me and a very handsome goodlooking decent boy living in australia .so therefore i ve no problems with young goodlooking westren guys.
just look into bridal pics thread and u will see all kind a couples bride is beautiful groom is ugly groom is handsome wife is ugly.wife is aged boy is young boy is aged girl is young.
i just opened this thread to knwo whta girls guys think about age difference between spouses.
btw i know every other guy wana marry to a choti bachi.means want a young girl
even sasu maas look for young beautiful girls for her babaji type betas..
who told u this that girls wana marry ugly babji?i guess ugliest girls even want his hubby to b a prince
every girl want best when it come to a life partner and coem lucky one gets....and some compromise
but it just a luck,circumstances,family presure other reaons where girls get those hubbies.we even heard that coupel made in heaven...so some time its god wish as well.soem time girl can fall in love with so so looking guy.
i felt sorry for those girls many times and always thought why she married to him?
not every girl got good looking,handsome prince charming
even good looking guys always goes for beuatiful girls..?chand si bivi un ko aur chand si bahu saas ko chahia
women can hide her age ..with make up but men cant.
you want beleive i have a khala who si almost 40 + looks younger then her daughter.
btw why are you jealous if a cutie is after some ugly male then u then there must b a reson.........find and fix it.
in the end i will appricate u being a male u thinks good for females..nice
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madam
i have no problem with gals. Infact id like to humbly say i am 'butters' but without self-intention, have been been extremly and sincerely wanted by Gorgeous, Buff Pakistani Gals in recent past.
And madam im no less smart then ur ave. tom, dick, or harry, i could have took advantage of them but i did not.
My Problem is that i cant make someone liking me by lieing. I cant make someone emotional into likeing me only to later find who they liked is not all perfect. Just because of being around somebody who seems perfect doesnt mean hes like that all the time.
Girls r just so dumb somtimes.
Waisey nice to hear abut ur good.hubby.
And im sorry but your assertion of equivilence in ugly-guy/prettywife to pretty guy/uglywife couples is not accurate.
Sorry but the fact is that uglyguy/pretty girls couples are much more common than the latter and u know that.
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nic e to hear from you aswell
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There's 12yrs between my Mum and Dad but they say now that it's wayy too much gap for nowadays. My brother is marrying someone who's 5yrs younger but when my parents were looking they weren't all that bothered about age to be honest, he saw girls who were 27/28 (same age as him) as well as those in their early twenties. My other half is 2 months younger than me lol :)
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does age really matters in wedding relation i mean if u have 10 to 15 years old diference in your age i mean husband is elder then u 10 to 15 so is generation gap came in your relation,thoughts in everything?
It can go to both sides depending upon individual's personality also me and my hub are 9 years apart but since he is youngest in family and very lively so we are great.But there is one relative her husband is eldest and is under lot of family pressure which made him serious more than his age and he is a serious man,never shares never talks its sometimes becomes a problem for her.