does age really matters in wedding relation i mean if u have 10 to 15 years old diference in your age i mean husband is elder then u 10 to 15 so is generation gap came in your relation,thoughts in everything?
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To some it does. There may a a huge gap in maturity level, but then again some men just age, never mature. I do think it is too much of a gap, the couple may not be on the same page. Perhaps different levels in their career, life, experiences.....etc. However I have seen some successful marriages where the gap is about 10 years apart....
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I have seen couples with a 10-15 year age difference between them and they have a successful marriage. And i've also seen couples with a 10-15 year age difference between them and their marriage is difficult.
Everyone is different. I personally could not marry someone that much older than me. You have to do what is right for YOU as an individual.........not what others assume is right for you. After all, you know yourself better than others....even family members.
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There is one marriage that I know of personally that worked well and is still going strong, which had a 19 or 20 year difference.
I knew them when the guy was around 50 and the woman was around 30. Now the guy is on his death bed cant walk or anything and is about 80. The woman is at about 60 is just fine. Now if the they were both in their 60s they would have another 10 good years or so.
In most cases in Pakistan those can work where the life is somewhat local and not global.
Personally I think if you love someone and your lives are headed in the same direction then age doesn't matter immediately but later in life it might make more of a difference.
Any partnership that is to (hopefully) last a lifetime should be somewhat close in age also or one will fail to keep up and retire earlier than the other.
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Whta is it with you girls
Your standards just seem to drop lower and lower.
First it was comprimisng on ugly guy
and now its old men too.
have u girls got no self-respect! Dont you value yourselfs?
Why do you give into societies selfish emotional blackmailign which they portray as 'comprimse'
I have none of those limitations. AND I STILL CANT GET A GOOD-GIRL!
stop making me feel aweful
I wonder what comprimise is coming next
''I am 22 years old i got a rista from a 52 year old man' should i go ahead with it.
Hes well settled has his own property, bank.balnce, and a BMW
no wonder you have the stereotype of having IRRATIONAL minds
uff..my bp
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...mein kia karoun ram mujhay budha mil giya....
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Age is a matter of the mind
If you dont mind...it does not matter
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well the average life span of Prophet Muhammad PBUH's Ummat is ~60. so yeah do consider it.
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...mein kia karoun ram mujhay budha mil giya....
LOL aap raam ko pukarna chor dain aur Allah ka pukarain.
My sisters married one with 10 & other with 20 older man.
I wouldn't recommend for that much age difference.
It affects everything in life. Soach, undaaz and all.
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oh c’mon stop comparing to the great prophet (pbuh) no one can be like him so hes exceptional case, leave it out.
C’mon u peopler making me jealous.
There r young young and nice guys out there u know.
:halo:
:halo:
One thing u should note is, yeah you girls like doing self-sacrificing heroics to saving the world by marrying older men.
BUt we men would never ever marry any of yous who were 10-15 years older.
NEVER
PERIOD
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Chaye mai hoon pachaas ka ya saatt ka muje bachi hi chahiye uneese ki.
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age matters i personally think age difference shud b lyke 1-2 years in marriage other wise da thinkin level n confort levels get insanee n u noe its jus hard
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oh c'mon stop comparing to the great prophet (pbuh) no one can be like him so hes exceptional case, leave it out.
i said His (PBUH's) Ummat. Read, Understand and then Reply.
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Age is a matter of the mind
If you dont mind...it does not matter
You mind it or not but in a husband wife relationship it matters a lot. But for other relationship that might not matter that much.
Depends on the person if the person is realy budha like his age then it's not good. But some budhay might not behave like budhay.
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BUDHAY HO GAEEY TO KIA, DIL TO JAWAN HAI...............
AGE MATTERS.....................
THERE IS AN EXPIRATION TIME FOR EVERYTHING ;)
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honestly speaking..
I think theier shud not be more than max 5-7 yars diff between spouses.
10-15 years higher than this its unfair to the girl. If a guy is that old why dont he marry someone around his age, there are many needy girls in pak over 30.
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Age doesnt really factor into marriage, peoples mentalities do. My hubby and I are almost 8 years apart but in personality we are about 20 years apart because his thinking is really old and mine is much younger (I act like a kid and he acts like my granddad!). My sister in law and her hubby are 10 years apart but you cant tell that because they are so well bonded and enjoy all the same things etc...
Someone suggested that if there is too much gap then when they get really old they lose time together. Only Allah knows how long life is. My friend is a 34 year old widow and there was only a 3 year gap between them.
Dont look at a persons age, look at the person. And if you dont find any..look at Amir pindi!!
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honestly speaking..
I think theier shud not be more than max 5-7 yars diff between spouses.
10-15 years higher than this its unfair to the girl. If a guy is that old why dont he marry someone around his age, there are many needy girls in pak over 30.
Totally agree with you.
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Age doesnt really factor into marriage, peoples mentalities do. My hubby and I are almost 8 years apart but in personality we are about 20 years apart because his thinking is really old and mine is much younger (I act like a kid and he acts like my granddad!). My sister in law and her hubby are 10 years apart but you cant tell that because they are so well bonded and enjoy all the same things etc...
Someone suggested that if there is too much gap then when they get really old they lose time together. Only Allah knows how long life is. My friend is a 34 year old widow and there was only a 3 year gap between them.
Dont look at a persons age, look at the person. And if you dont find any..look at Amir pindi!!
But in most cases you don't find mentality before marriage. Only you can find age.
What if the guy seems a gentle man and after marriage find out he is junk?
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But in most cases you don't find mentality before marriage. Only you can find age.
What if the guy seems a gentle man and after marriage find out he is junk?
That has nothing to do with age Gr8. You can have guys younger than you, the same age as you or older than you and they all have equal chance of being 'junk'. An idiot is an idiot at any age and the year you are born in has no relevance.