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does age really matters in wedding relation i mean if u have 10 to 15 years old diference in your age i mean husband is elder then u 10 to 15 so is generation gap came in your relation,thoughts in everything?
Its said that there is a generation gap every 5 years:)
I think its the personality that has to match/be compatible then age only.
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That has nothing to do with age Gr8. You can have guys younger than you, the same age as you or older than you and they all have equal chance of being 'junk'. An idiot is an idiot at any age and the year you are born in has no relevance.
Excellent point, Wildhalcyon. I especially like the way you worded your last sentence.
It is true that** "Idiocy don't give a damn about age"** Some younger individuals are more sensible than their older counterparts from both genders. Idiocy is not confined to a particular age group.
One should marry someone they feel attracted and compatible do. In the end, you do what you feel is right for you as an individual.
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That has nothing to do with age Gr8. You can have guys younger than you, the same age as you or older than you and they all have equal chance of being 'junk'. An idiot is an idiot at any age and the year you are born in has no relevance.
Totally agree with you.
But by the time liking and other stuffs do change according to age.
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As I learned and saw from my sisters experience.
Most of the time or mostly Once a budha is always a budha. He can't come to your level and you can't cross your level to reach him.
Better not to marry a budhda.
I can't explain everything in detail it would become essay but I strongly say that avoid marrying a budha if you could and have control.
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Age DOES matter.........U have to be on the same wavelength with your partner and belonging to two different generations isn't gonna cut it .....at some point in the relationship it is gonna make a huge difference...........
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it matters if u let it matter. theres a 10 yr difference between me and my husband and i couldnt have asked for a better person to spend the rest of my life with. but then again it all depends on ur chemistry with the other person and how well they understand u and vice versa
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Yes age matters. The truth is, women outlive men by many years. Do you want to be alone as a senior citizen? Sure, you will have your kids and grandkids, but they won't be there for you 24/7...as they will be quite busy in their own lives. Mary a man around your age and there is a higher chance he will be around longer (Allah willing).
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it matters if u let it matter. theres a 10 yr difference between me and my husband and i couldnt have asked for a better person to spend the rest of my life with. but then again it all depends on ur chemistry with the other person and how well they understand u and vice versa
You are talking about some exceptional case. Still there would be many thing with matters but either of you would be careless for those or compromised.
I don't want to post essay here to prove my point from reality check and having first hand experience.
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Excellent point, Wildhalcyon. I especially like the way you worded your last sentence.
It is true that** "Idiocy don't give a damn about age"** Some younger individuals are more sensible than their older counterparts from both genders. Idiocy is not confined to a particular age group.
One should marry someone they feel attracted and compatible do. In the end, you do what you feel is right for you as an individual.
A buchcha is always a buchcha no matter how much genius he/she is.
He/she might be good in some or few things more than her age but in the end he can't be an adult way.
Once a buchcha is always a buchcha. No matter how smart he/she is.
With the age ppl learn things and smartness can't bring that much wiseness which experience could.
That is why I sometimes see that your post are different then me. You are not as much experienced as I'm neither you would be of my age.
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I think up to a certain point its fine, i.e 10-15 years shouldnt be a problem as long as the couple both are mature and compatible. However I think when we jump to higher numbers i.e 20+ years problems could probably arise, mainly i think health wise. Its also unfair in the long run i think on the children, if the mother is say 30 and the father is 50+ how much of the childs life will he be there for, you know? A lot of things have to be taken into consideration.
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no. but then im a pervert and like kids.
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no. but then im a pervert and like kids.
huh ?
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you arent a kid. move along.
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you arent a kid. move along.
I wasnt talking about the "kid" part anyway. Was referring to the "pervert" part that I didnt understand.
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sure
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you arent a kid. move along.
lol. batameez
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sure
You are not very smart...are you?
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Age does matter.. no matter how much we pretend to be happy with someone who is older than us there is always a pinch in your heart which you feel more as days go by... the fun you can have with someone similar to your age is different than the fun you gonna have with a bab ji..lol
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As I learned and saw from my sisters experience.
Most of the time or mostly Once a budha is always a budha. He can't come to your level and you can't cross your level to reach him.
Better not to marry a budhda.
I can't explain everything in detail it would become essay but I strongly say that avoid marrying a budha if you could and have control.
LMAO!!