Re: Do you think this is appropriate?
1- Tablighi Jamaat people do not say things like that.
2- They never discuss other person's beliefs.
3- People who go to non-muslims have been with Jamaat for a long time and are very humble and do not do such an idiotic act.
No one in my family of the past 80 years spent time in tableegh. I was the first person in my family who when came across these people decided to spend time with them few years ago, while in search of truth, and Alhamdulillah now many people in my family are learning from them and following the teachings of Islam.
From all the time I spent with them I realized that the points you mentioned are correct. In every markaz, there are proper instructions given to every jamaat regarding do's and dont's before they leave for any place. Never ever did I hear in any instruction given to any jamaat something that I found unreasonable such as the behavior mentioned in the article.
But I realized that out of the illiterate people who join the jamaat very few of them at times don't follow/understand the simple instructions given to them and do what ever their heart feels tempted to and their own mind understands. Such people bring a bad name to the whole jammat in front of the people who are hungry to see a mistake and portray it to be the act of the whole Tableeghi Jamaat.
The percentage of reasonably behaving people I saw in Tableeghi jamaat, I didn't see in any other group I came across related to any field of life. Also, I haven't seen any group where people from all the fields of life join and peacefully follow the rules.