do traditional professional girls still exist?

[AnnaKarenina]

Re: do traditional professional girls still exist?

@pak2015

Haha I get what you’re saying.

I actually don’t want to control anyone, I want her to be my best friend. I want to respect her and our relationship and I hope she will respect me and our relationship in return. I just want a girl who understands herself what appropriate boundaries are when in a relationship and knows how to adjust, self regulate and self reflect. I myself have a very self reflective personality and constantly try to improve myself. I’m a physician I have enough things to worry about, the last thing I want is to worry about my wife. I want confidence in my wife’s ability to act decent and classy. In my experience, traditional girls have perfected this better than the modern girls because they’ve been raised in a way that’s more geared towards maintaining a marriage as a team rather than doing whatever interests them regardless of their partners likes or dislikes. Modern girls eventually adjust also typically after marriage although after countless fighting lol..seen it so many times. I don’t have time or desire to teach anyone how to not act single anymore.

You can’t really have preconceived notions and classify girls as modern and traditional and judge their personalities like that. There’s plenty of “traditional” girls with nakhre and attitude, and plenty of 'modern" girls who are down to earth and family oriented. It all depends on the individual. Just because a girl dresses more “modern” doesn’t make her a bad wife, and the converse for a traditional girl. Outward appearances don’t always reflect inner appearances and don’t predict their wife game. Wearing revealing or tight clothes doesn’t necessarily make you unclassy and an attention whore, just like a hijabi girl isn’t a God-send angel who sits on a janamaz.