Re: Do PATHAN men treat their ladies better than PUNJABI men???
Well, actually the Pakhtoon women are very hard and they don't need to be pampered like other women.
Well, actually the Pakhtoon women are very hard and they don't need to be pampered like other women.
Hard ... in what sense ?
c'mon Icono Bhai... they are women ...... like other women..
Re: Do PATHAN men treat their ladies better than PUNJABI men???
they are tougher, thats the way they have been brought up.
they are tougher, thats the way they have been brought up.
so let assume …
A person adopts a child … put him in extreme conditions .. deprive him from a normal childhood .. for XYZ reasons … grant him no education
How do you see this misery … will ya have no sympathy for him just because he is tough enough to handle things on his own ?
Brought up in that way ..
No matter how tough they are .. at any given day Pathan women are as vulnerable as other women
The should be given all the basic rights they deserve ...
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Ofcourse they shud be given their rights, i am just pointing out that they are tougher than other women.
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Maybe we should stay away from stereotyping either group
Excuse me?:aq: So you mean to say that punjabi people are not honest imaandar and hard working?
Girl, good people and bad people are all over the place. Please dont say stuff like this about punjabis. You do not even know what pathans do. Just a small example, most of the truck drivers in dubai Pathan, most of the taxi drivers Pathan, who tries to kill me all the time Pathan people… They drive so stupidly and end up doing accident and killing other people. I know Pathan people who hit their wives, children, rape other women and indulge in incest. Not to say that Punjabis dont do this. There are good pathans and good punjabis, same as bad pathans and bad punjabis. I got soo sad and shocked after reading your post. You should not say like this.
The point is, remove the pathan punjabi layer, remove the pakistani layer, look at all of them as human beings and human beings do commit crimes, are violent, beat people up even daughters:hinna:, say bad words, and all that. Human beings are human after all not some supernatural beings that they will not commit crimes, make mistakes or fall in the trap of temptation.
There are honest successful trustworthy punjabis too in the world, and i am proud to say i am one of them.
Gud one! :biggthumb
Like it has been sed before, thoughts here are being expressed on personal experiences and generally associating an experience with a a whole group of ppl does not justify anything, moreso its the ignorance of those ppl to do tht and use them as facts and continue to believe in it. No one group is perfect, no one human is perfect, discussing such sensitive topics and associating them with a particular group of HUMANS will surely lead to no where, no one person is same and hence neither a group of ppl, everyone has a mind of their own n everyone has their own beliefs n their own values and their actionz are based in accordance with these, every person has to be and should be judged or talked abt or wateva, seperately, grouping ppl together will never prove tht all those in the group are same, similar and hav same intentionz.
OK PEOPLE... The reason i started this topic is BECAUSE there are a lot of generalisations made on this subject, and i wanted ppl to write their own experiences of how they r treated, I did think that personal testimonies would help educate those who have preconceptions about this issue.
I am shocked by some of the generalisations made here, but please put down PERSONAL experiences only, bcos we dont know if stereotypes are true, and we want to find out now.
Also, ppl like stalker and others who keep associating preferences for boys, as we would like to see personal testimonies here, would u like to to continue to enforce the sterotype without real knowledge, or would u like to tell us the real reason why u keep pushing it, bcos im beginning to suspect that u have either approached a pathan man to request such favours and been rejected (hence the bitterness), or that u have been on the receiving end?????
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Some people never fail to amaze me by their views. Probably the only good aspect of this discussion is that it uncovers the mentality and narrow mindedness of people who have prejudice against their brothers and sisters only because they speak a different language.
I don't think there is any benefit of pointing finger at the dirt of the opponents (with generalization) and hiding the dirt of one's own group at the same time.
If someone is so willing to make his mouth and heart dirty for other people, than please do justice and expose your knowledge for the bad aspects of people of your own group as well.
I better avoid their posts from now on.
OK PEOPLE... The reason i started this topic is BECAUSE there are a lot of generalisations made on this subject, and i wanted ppl to write their own experiences of how they r treated, I did think that personal testimonies would help educate those who have preconceptions about this issue.
I am shocked by some of the generalisations made here, but please put down PERSONAL experiences only, bcos we dont know if stereotypes are true, and we want to find out now.
Your action speaks against your words …sire
You want the clear the misconceptions with a title which states ‘ Do pathan men treat their women better then Punjabi men ‘
Intention was good but here you are guilty of segregation … comparing one from another …
The title clearly delivers an idea of you saying X is better then Y …
Don’t you think Y supporters will come with their own theories or generalization ?
My put .. a healthy debateable topic ruined by the choice of a doltish caption
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RupayHalwa, next time you open a thread, please put a correct caption to it. Like in this thread, you want people to actually kowtow to your line that Group A and Group B have no difference vis a vis treatment of women or whatever. You pose a question, so expect an answer. People will have opinions and you will have to learn to live with that, I'm so sorry. You seriously need to grow up and stop being such a massive bigot.
As far as Pathans and pretty boys are concerned, please read the thread and KNOW that the association was an extrapolation of what other folks, possibly some pathans, have been saying. I frankly don't care. If it hit a raw nerve, well too bad!
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Hey!!! :)
it doesn't really depend on wehther they are pathan or punjabi to justify the way their women are treated it is actually based on what kind of person you are and what your personal beliefs are......:)
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bingo to a certain extent! :k: and how the society and your family shapes you and peer pressure and environment and soo many other things.
Hey!!! :)
it doesn't really depend on wehther they are pathan or punjabi to justify the way their women are treated it is actually based on what kind of person you are and what your personal beliefs are......:)
Yes, I would agree with that, however, the reason for starting this thread is to realise that, it was started bcos some ppl implied that punjabi men treat ladies better than pathan men.
However, the thread has also thrown up stereotypes which ppl actually do believe...
Healthy debate should be encouraged, i say.
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you mentioned some people, some people on gs?
Hey!!! :)
it doesn't really depend on wehther they are pathan or punjabi to justify the way their women are treated it is actually based on what kind of person you are and what your personal beliefs are......:)
Exactly!!!
Heeray jaisi baat ki hai ap naain.
Re: Do PATHAN men treat their ladies better than PUNJABI men???
This is ridiculous thread. Pakhtuns men are men just like any other.
From the clubs to the mosque, I have seen it all and even I won't say that generalizing is worth it.
Let me address the homosexuality issue up front: It's definitely not part of the 'culture' but exists just like in any other culture...unlike some brilliant people here, we are not going to push it under the rug. It's not a part of Islam or Pakhtunwali practiced by Pakhtuns. Its an unfortunate outcome of segregation..similar to teh situation in Saudi Arabia whcih has thriving gay/lesbian scene.
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i am punjabi and from very strict back ground. and all punjabis are different. some would be so strict while others wont. so it depends on each individual.
once we had phatan neighbours, from afghanstan. they are were not strict on parda but very harsh on women. their daughters used to be my friends. they are basically obeying their brothers and fathers and never used to play after 4 as a that time their brother/father used to come home. but they were very beautiful people!
Only asking cos i saw come comments on the recent thread "Some girls...".
It gives the impression that Punjabi men treat their ladies better than Pathan. I don't think thats necessarily true. Add your twopence worth here!!!
SOME pathan men treat their MEN well, as well.
Hi, what was the ethnicity of the person who killed his daughter in Toronto, Canada, which was widely reported by media, because she didn't do "pardah" and another Muslim person, who killed his daughter in Itlay?