Do PATHAN men treat their ladies better than PUNJABI men???

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^So the pathaans that you know equates to you pajnaji freidns that you come across in numbers?

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50% of american men r pedophiles :chai: now wat u say bout that peeps:chai:

i hear that everyday so it shud be true :chai:

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Any reference for it?

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ok seriously, this discussion isn't going to go anywhere. it's topics like these that you hear things like pakhtoon people don't like punjabi people, or that punjabi people are teh scum of the earth. stop it! men are men. doesn't matter which ethnicity or nationality they are. both pakhtoon culture and the punjabi cultures have great values in them, and both have other values that either of the culture will not understand. and both cultures can be dissuaded and looked upon as dumb due to uneducation.

so stop it. you're going to come up with stories that say that punjabi men beat their women. well a punjabi is going to come up and show you how pakhtoon men are bad. include sindhis, balochis, kashmiri men in this, and the thread will keep on getting longer. in the end, it all boils down to how many horrific stories you can remember. but is that going to get us anywhere? is it going to make us better pakistan, muslims, human beings? is it going to fix the rifts between our country? i think not. so i really don't see point of this discussion.

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we want more arguments :stuck_out_tongue:

hamari mangain pori karo :cb:
:music:

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who needs reference here every1 is just saying things so i said it too :chai:

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fine...but argue about other things. there are a bajillion topics under the earth. just look through some of the threads here. but not about this topic. this is a sensitive topic on so many fronts, and isn't going anywhere, except creating more rifts, which ought to be fixed, not further exploited.

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I dont see any reason why a pathan man should treat a punjabi man better than his own wife .. unless he is .. you know:5:

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A,he wasnt ranting against anyone YOU do:)
B,even if i was thanking him wats ur problem?

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I'm neither of the two ethnicities, soo here are my thoughts on this topic. For the first 10-12 years of my life I had never met a Punjabi (lol) so didn't know what they were like, however I did know a lot of Pakhtuns (still do) they were just normal people mostly, but depending on where their ancestral home was made a difference to what they were like. I noticed that those from either Afghanistan or FATA were extremely conservative, with their women totally covered up and very mysterious. The ones from Abbotabad and surrounding areas were a lot less conservative. Same applies with Punjabis, I met Punjabis when I first came to UK (as it is flooded with people from Mirpur region), most being from Mirpur and surrounding areas were slightly more conservative, although their women as well as the men tend to have a lot of bling bling going on for some reason, I guess they like their gold jewellery. The Punjabis from cities such as Lahore tend to be a lot more liberal, but have this nasty superiority complex towards other Punjabis from Mirpur etc (which I think is very wrong, not all but most).

Soo I guess it depends a lot on where they're originally from. Out of the two though, Pakhtuns are definatley the more hospitable ones though, they know how to take care of guests.

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^..abdelyuuki u said punjabi pakis people have a superiority complex towards punjabi s from mirpur..well i dunt know about that..but i can tell u from experience taht they sure as hell have a inferiority coplex towrads even their own punjabi poeple and twoards ALL pakistani people..all they know how to do is get jelaous of people who by thier own hard work become financially well off adn theyr as greedy as hell..at least pathan people are honest, imandaar and hard-working..they dont expect anyhting from nayone..they do it themselves..theyr not greedy..they r not jelaous of anyone no matter how much more they have and htey dont try to **** up anyone's life by playing dirty family politics games ..

and i am not saying this because im pathan or soemthing..bcs im not .. i AM PunjabI pakistani but u know what punjabi paksi make me sick..most of htem..not all of them..ive seen them and their habits since i was little and i hope all the bad ones rot in hell!

thanks..:)

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Before peeps say sthg. to moi lemme clear sthg. I am not a Punjabi or a Pakhtun :@:

I was just expressing my views :phati:

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what ethnicity do you belong to? where are you from ancestrally?

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I’m English, African and French :stuck_out_tongue:

P.S. Main nahin batati :balley: jitna maine keh diya hai utna kafi hai :@:

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kk, miss mohajir/sindhi ~_~

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Despite my previous comments, I think this thread is pointless. As a nation, we need to treat our women better, be that Pathans or Pujabis or whatever.

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Stalker, I think u r a closet anti-pathan person, either u really love them and would love to b like them, or u dont know them at all and are enforcing stereotypes like a person with no actual real experiences of pathan life.

Yes, such treatment sucks, but I have yet to meet a real pathan family where this goes on. I know many pathan families, and the men are VERY considerate of their wives. Im talking about in pakistan villages and in the UK. Also, when i visited a pathan area in pakistan recently, i noticed that any male escort would always carry the bags outside.

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lol
yes I know what you mean.

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Gud one! :biggthumb

Like it has been sed before, thoughts here are being expressed on personal experiences and generally associating an experience with a a whole group of ppl does not justify anything, moreso its the ignorance of those ppl to do tht and use them as facts and continue to believe in it. No one group is perfect, no one human is perfect, discussing such sensitive topics and associating them with a particular group of HUMANS will surely lead to no where, no one person is same and hence neither a group of ppl, everyone has a mind of their own n everyone has their own beliefs n their own values and their actionz are based in accordance with these, every person has to be and should be judged or talked abt or wateva, seperately, grouping ppl together will never prove tht all those in the group are same, similar and hav same intentionz.

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Once a pakhtoon freind of mine told me about how their women lack confidence and in emergencey sitatution like if they are lost, they even cant tell their address etc.