A bunch of women and I were talking at work today about hormones kicking in during the 30’s and one of the girls who is in her 30’s openly admitted that it is so true.
She said “I think about it ALL THE TIME”
So, my question is. Gentlemen (esp the married ones, ): Being married to a 30 year old, how is it? Is it exhausting? Is it a turn off when a woman has so much drive?
From what I understand, a woman having too many orgasms in a given time period is a total turn off for men.
And that’s one more place where your ‘understanding’ is in question. Don’t know where you learn all this.
Men don’t get exhausted till they are in 90’s, sick, or she is ‘still’ like a log, cold like the ice. It may all depend on her!
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Why on earth would a woman's orgasm be a turn off for a man?
However, having an active sex drive is one thing, being a nymphomaniac is another. As long as it doesn't jump the borders of normality, its all good.
Complaints normally go the other way around. Market is flooded with erections, its the demand that is sluggish. Some blame it on the financial crisis.
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dr. queer's diagnosis is that pcg is suffering from acute nodiceosis. she is rapidly metamorphosing into the female equivalent of a fat pervy uncle. prognosis is rather bleak..
anyway, a bunch of middle-aged women talking about their sex drives.. oh sounds like a place where everyone's going to be real honest..
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PCG: I think it's the girls who are single have a higher drive, and think about it all the time - because it's not readily available to them.
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High Sex drive has nothing to do with married or not.
Could be somewhat age related but again not always.
It depends on many other factors.
PCG: I think it's the girls who are single have a higher drive, and think about it all the time - because it's not readily available to them.
I think u r very right! that is why married people are more confident and satisfied in many regards!
I think what soni meant to say is that Pakistani gals are still quite reserved shy and modest in discussing or bringing up such issues in public.
I think what soni meant to say is that Pakistani gals are still quite reserved shy and modest in discussing or bringing up such issues in public.
Aye ryte!!!
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yea, they want it more because they know they're not gettin it.
Either their husband has left them or everything has started sagging southwards. What a bunch of despos.
I think what soni meant to say is that Pakistani gals are still quite reserved shy and modest in discussing or bringing up such issues in public.
Please dont say that again. Go to Pakistan and take a look at our "modran" society and then talk. Sab kuch khuley aam hota hai vahan pe, yahan kamaskam log chupatey to hein.
seriously, whats your obsession with other people's sex drive/life? if its not an issue for you personally, then why the need to discuss it confused
Keep the nastiness to a minimum otherwise I will have to delete your posts.
its hard to beleive u r a paksitani girl..
Why? Pakistani women dont have sex according to you? I would look at Pakistan's population right now if I were you and see who is actually having more sex...Pakistani women or American women...
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This is not such a far-fetched thread. Women do indeed experience a surge of desire in the 30s and this has been studied. Women's desire peaks between age 30 and 34. That doesnt mean that we turn into sex-crazed fanatics, it just means that we want more of it and enjoy it more with those extra hormones raging around.
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So, then how do men in the same age range receive that? Are they annoyed with the constant insistence by the wife to do more? Does it make them feel inferior sexually, because now the wife is in charge demanding more sex, when that used to be them?
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PCG, I guess it depends on the guy. Most guys I think would welcome this invigorated energy/interest. Men are more streamlined in this area - they do not have the monthly fluctuations of hormones nor do they go through anything remotely resembling menopause. And I would imagine that most married men would prefer more sex than they typically get...so the 30s surge I imagine is a blessing for the majority. And a reason for more than a few "oops babies"!!
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Guy lets just be a lil civil here ... we're all grown up people and just because we have a veil of anonymity because of the whole online thing doesn't really mean you go after people and be disrespectful .... if you don't agree with someone then feel free to disagree but with an ounce of respect and dignity.
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[mod]Please refrain from any 3rd class language and personal attack . Thanks . [/mod]
So are you American ? no one was pointing at you … did anyone said PSquared is not modest? why are you taking it personally? Any tinka in your dharee? 
btw the truth is that here most of such behayaa topics have been opened by those gals who are from West. So there you go…
SEX is not bad but the way it is presented n discussed here is bad. The way such discussions are encouraged here by SOME is bad. The wives n husbands who share their bedroom secrets is bad. The wife telling everyone the details how her hubby does it is bad. The unmarried ppl curious about the deeeep details and married one coming dancing and providing the details is bad.
No one stops you from being curious but when you bring such topic in public, realise some sense of responsibility that you may spoil some kachay zehan here. Do you talk on such topics with your lil bro and sis? Now plz dont tell me that there are 1000 other sources where they ll get the info from. I agree but why do you wnt to be responsible for that?
this excuse that mostly ppl cannot share with sis or mom. all the shyness comes when you have to discuss it with mom, sisters or freinds? why?
Actually you ppl are useless… holding degrees from prestigious institutions, working with decent ppl. living among decent ppl has in reality learnt nothing and thats not something u ll get a medal for but its a shame.