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PCG, have you ever had a cucumber salad?
Your stupid tunnel vision is annoying, but I won’t say it. Thats how considerate I am :k:
I think what soni meant to say is that Pakistani gals are still quite reserved shy and modest in discussing or bringing up such issues in public.
i think here by Pakistani girl you mean, Middle class pakistani girls. otherwise upper and lower classes are load more westernized than westerners (both in language and in actions).
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FairyTale, yahan tou sirf discussion horaha hai.. if you were to see pictures of what goes on in Pakistan in real life, and very openly too, you will go Oh.My.Gee. 
i think here by Pakistani girl you mean, Middle class pakistani girls. otherwise upper and lower classes are load more westernized than westerners (both in language and in actions).
Couldn't agree more heard alot about. Last time I was in pak was 2002
Care to share with us
i think here by Pakistani girl you mean, Middle class pakistani girls. otherwise upper and lower classes are load more westernized than westerners (both in language and in actions).
lower classes are westernized?..what the flip r u talking about woman?..
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westernized is not the right word, but,iagree with the point, upper and lower classes are more liberal than middle class.
If only folks knew what I know about some folks :halo:
Discussing sexual issues is not haraam. It’s not inappropriate. It’s actually healthy and makes for healthier marriages → less cheating in the long run within a community.
I’d rather talk about these things openly in a community of friends I have gotten to know over the past decade, as oppose to flying out to meet some beau of mine in secret and risk exploring these topics in a more physical way, which will just hurt me in the long run. People who are not openly discussing these topics and being mentored by people who are more experienced in our society end up being in the latter group.
It is healthy to talk about these topics. It is not healthy to explore them behind closed doors and make it seem like you’re a total virgin and you haven’t ever seen anything or done anything. Unfortunately, most of your “seedhi saadhi” pakistani girls fall into the latter group.
I’ll openly admit to my significant other about what I have seen or done. I have nothing to hide. And the fact that I openly discuss these topics without a problem shows that I’m not shy about these topics or immature about them.
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its called airing your dirty laundry in public and last I checked its still considered crass, vulger and lowbred in any decent company or community. what goes on in the bedroom should pretty much stay in the bedroom, just like other marital issues and going ons, water cooler discussions on ones sex life are certainly not 'healthy' or lessen 'cheating in a marriage' (living in the west I know firsthand how untrue that one really is).
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^drone attack :D
with hidden identity. hmmm
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no dude, this is not an attack. I am just calling a spade a spade, the lack of candidness regarding this topic here is proof of that. I am all for open discussions but lets not sugar coat the issue to make it sound as if its for the greater good of makind, becasue its not.
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All i can say is that if ppl have any sort of objection with regards to a thread topic, please voice your concerns to the moderators and admins or just dont open the thread, there are enough ppl who are pretty much from all over who are comfortable discussing things and if that offends you by all means don`t respond. Now as far as the decency of the topic goes, well as you can see this is LIFE 1 (LIFE & RELATIONSHIPS) forum which pretty much is an open forum to discuss problems in marriages to problem in bed whoever can and is comfortable giving advise please do. This is a masked forum to anonymously voice your concerns or apprehensions and doubts so let ppl do it and please dont bring decency or values in discussions.
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Patriot, then why don't you explain that to all the male posters here who post and comment on sexual topics and furthermore make lewd jokes about females?
Or is it allowed for men to talk about "dirty" topics but not women?
Patriot, then why don't you explain that to all the male posters here who post and comment on sexual topics and furthermore make lewd jokes about females?
Or is it allowed for men to talk about "dirty" topics but not women?
yeah,
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PCG, not at all, same rule applies to them but I see them making lewd remards and jokes in these kinda threads more where they can get away with it as per the topic's requirement. sorry for derailing your thread, carry on.
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This is not a joking matter to begin with. Parity among gender libidos in an a particular age range and the effect of thus parity in marital bliss and relationship health is paramount to a healthy family.
Many girls here and myself are in their 30's or entering it and I'd like to know if this phenomenon is real and are women having to play it down to let their man feel like a real man as opposed to a stressed out man wondering how he ended up with a nymphomaniac.
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And if the above topic seems funny to them, there is the door. You can play in other threads.
(and I'm not even a moderator.)
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This explains everything.
Where is my 5-hour Energy Booster drink?
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If you dont like the topic, please move on to the next thread. Thanks.